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Dream Interpretation
Front-Ranger:
Sounds like a couple of guilt dreams, Jeff. You are too hard on yourself, but it's not easy to change the course of dreams.
I have a fig tree that is in a large pot and I don't want to put it in an even larger pot so I "root prune it" usually at this time of year. You spread newspapers or a sheet down, lay the plant on its side and work it out of its pot. Trim roots at the bottom and about 1 inch around the sides. Fan the roots out a little if they are intertwined. Don't be afraid to trim back quite a bit. Put some fresh potting soil in the bottom, replace the plant in the pot and add fresh soil around the sides. Put the plant back in its place, water, and then prune the top of the plant as needed. The plant will need some rest time and then it should have a flush of new growth.
With an evergreen, the new growth is in the form of "candles" little nubbins in a brighter color at the end of the stems. You can snap these off in order to contain the growth.
CellarDweller:
I had one last night I can barely remember.
I was in NYC, standing on a sidewalk looking at three young adults, curled up and napping together on the sidewalk. I don't know why they were there, but they soon woke up and walked into a building. I was still standing there, when a flow of water, no deeper than 1/4 inch, but filled the whole sidewalk and street just flowed around me and past me, down the block.
Jeff Wrangler:
Last night I had a dream that I consider very sad.
I was in Provincetown walking west on Commercial Street by myself. I was just about up to the hardware store. In reality, the store formerly had a parking lot next to it, and you could see right down to the bay. Lately the building has been expanded so that you can no longer see the bay, but in my dream the parking lot was still there, with its unobstructed view of the water.
I was feeling very alone and very sad about it, and wondering what was wrong with me that I've never been able to find a permanent boyfriend. (In the dream I wasn't "counting" the one who died after less than a year back in 1999. In reality I do think of him at least one time a day, sometimes more.)
Front-Ranger:
--- Quote from: Jeff Wrangler on December 11, 2017, 01:26:50 pm ---I was feeling very alone and very sad about it, and wondering what was wrong with me that I've never been able to find a permanent boyfriend. (In the dream I wasn't "counting" the one who died after less than a year back in 1999. In reality I do think of him at least one time a day, sometimes more.)
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I'm sure Ennis, had he lived by the shore, would have been having similar thoughts, friend. But I don't think there's anything wrong with you. There's something major wrong with our generation. . .a whole generation of gay men were decimated. It's hard to find a soulmate when you're gay, because the numbers are working against you, but many more times harder in this generation. It breaks my heart. Still, I think there's always hope if you're willing to be patient and not grow bitter and close minded.
CellarDweller:
--- Quote from: Front-Ranger on December 22, 2017, 07:57:09 pm ---There's something major wrong with our generation. . .a whole generation of gay men were decimated. It's hard to find a soulmate when you're gay, because the numbers are working against you, but many more times harder in this generation. It breaks my heart.
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very true!
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