Merci Br. Patrick !
You say:
Religious leaders have always used SEX as a guilt trip (notice that I did not say Spiritual Leaders). Having power over people is not an easy thing to do. We all tend toward Controlling something or other. But when that Control is combined with Religion.. POW! Some people just can't handle it and wind up being 'teachers' or 'leaders' of things that BIND people, not FREEING them.
I know this from experience. Just because I'm a Benedictine Monk, that makes some people immediately put me on a pedestal. When I sense that happening, I will do something very human because I'm just the same as everybody else, I just have this wonderful calling. But that's the same with everyone.
Being on a Pedestal is a nasty thing. The only way you can go is DOWN.
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Frère Patrick,
May I ask:
Everyone can be on a pedestal? Especially trying to help with one's talent?
Everyone needs help and can accept help ?? Every person learns every day ?
Au revoir,
hugs!