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southendmd:
I love this thread, you guys.

Lureen as "she who lures"! She's definitely the aggressor here; I guess that makes Jack the trophy husband. If you think about it, both get some of what they want: 

     Jack gets financial stability, and a not-very-demanding wife, and a long leash to visit Wyoming and Mexico. Also the ability to leave, on short notice, if necessary.

     Lureen gets the trophy husband, albeit a "pissant", a baby, and the opportunity to "wear the pants" and run the family  business.

Both have to compromise, however.  I think there is basic affection/respect.  But the passion goes elsewhere: Jack's to Ennis, or the hope of Ennis; Lureen's gets sublimated into her work. Her passion turns into "looking for extra zeros". It's true both Jack and Lureen suffered disappointment, and found a way to "stand it".

I agree that Lureen knew something about Jack, maybe not consciously.  She knew he was a dreamer: in the phone call, she says, "knowing Jack, BBM could just be a pretend place..." 

I love those little squeaks of recognition, very subtle, when Ennis says "no, ma'am... we was herding sheep..." and later "we was good friends".

By the way, Cassie, another aggressive woman, makes me think of "Cassandra" in Greek myth: "she who entangles men" is how she is described. She had the gift/curse of making predictions of the future that no one believed.

Meryl:

--- Quote ---By the way, Cassie, another aggressive woman, makes me think of "Cassandra" in Greek myth: "she who entangles men" is how she is described. She had the gift/curse of making predictions of the future that no one believed.
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Funny you should say that, southendmd!  I just spent the last half hour looking up references to Cassandra (prompted by Katherine's post about her name suggesting "casting"), primarily because Ennis has been compared to the Trojan hero Aeneas in other discussions.  At least one source I checked out described them as having been lovers, but I don't know if that is the case in the Aeneid.  Sounds like it's worth pursuing.  8)

henrypie:
I quote Celeste:

Everyone's heart broke in a different way.

Beautiful; very Tolstoy.


Maybe Lureen had a buddy of her own whom she telephoned up as soon as Jack was out of the driveway for a fourteen-hour drive.  Hell, she could get a lot done in Jack's driving time alone.  Good reason for the long leash!

YaadPyar:

--- Quote from: latjoreme on May 17, 2006, 02:00:57 pm ---
IMO, Lureen is not cold, calculating or manipulative. She saw Jack, understandably found him attractive, and went for it. That's what people are SUPPOSED to do, right? She may come on a little strong -- as does Cassie, later; neither of these women would have snared their cowboys any other way -- but that's OK. And she probably was rebelling a bit against her overbearing Daddy (evidence: first-date sex in the backseat of his car and, later, her smirk when Jack tells LD off on Thanksgiving). And she quite possibly was pregnant before the wedding. But none of those actions are particularly evil....


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I won't quote the whole thing, but resonate with all you wrote Katherine.

serious crayons:

--- Quote from: YaadPyar on May 17, 2006, 04:16:09 pm ---I won't quote the whole thing, but resonate with all you wrote Katherine.

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Thanks, Celeste! Actually, my post originally started by saying that I felt yours was the opinion that most closely matched mine. (I cut that sentence only because several more posts appeared while I was writing my tome, and I didn't have time to check them for possible agreement before posting my own.)

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