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Heath Ledger - the grieving thread
mvansand76:
--- Quote from: sfericsf on February 07, 2008, 01:01:50 am ---Oh god, same here. In the back of my mind I had hoped to either run into him somewhere, and jes' be able to shake his hand and say "thank you Heath for playing Ennis Del Mar", or that he'd actually show up in person at a future theatre screening or Brokie gathering, jes' to "be with us for the day".
That possiblilty is gone now. :'(
I sure do hope he knows how much he changed our lives by playing Ennis Del Mar for us...
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{{{{{Eric}}}}}}
loneleeb3:
--- Quote from: sfericsf on February 07, 2008, 01:01:50 am ---Oh god, same here. In the back of my mind I had hoped to either run into him somewhere, and jes' be able to shake his hand and say "thank you Heath for playing Ennis Del Mar", or that he'd actually show up in person at a future theatre screening or Brokie gathering, jes' to "be with us for the day".
That possiblilty is gone now. :'(
I sure do hope he knows how much he changed our lives by playing Ennis Del Mar for us...
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Thanks everyone!
Just had to say goodbye!
Eric,
He knows. He will be with us at our next gathering and all others from here on out.
He will live in our hearts and memories and as long as we keep that love and those memories alive he will be with us.
I know it's not the same but it gives me some comfort!
{{{{{ERIC}}}}} :-*
Front-Ranger:
I am up and down and all over the map today. At one moment I'm elated, then I'm reaching for kleenex on a crying jag! (This makes me think of the line, "sometimes the pillow was wet, sometimes the sheets") Last nite I made the cherry cake for the Memorial Service and it cheered me up immensely. Just like Ma Twist, I made a cake to comfort others (even tho they probly "can't take none" right now) and it comforted ME. But today I am morosely thinking that Heath wasn't meant to live long in this life he had. He never seemed very happy, maybe the happiest he ever was was when he knew he had nailed the character of Ennis Del Mar, and when he fell in love with Michelle and they conceived Mathilda. But he went backwards at some point, and when a person named Heath goes backwards through the alphabet just four letters, it spells Death. :'(
moremojo:
Heath's full name apparently was Heathcliff Andrew Ledger. I understand that his parents named him Heathcliff in appreciation of Emily Bronte's literary masterpiece Wuthering Heights. Heathcliff in that novel is not at all likeable in the usual sense of the word, an almost demonic, Romantic character, emotionally bruised and full of passion. What he did have in his life, the one thing that arguably redeemed him, was the experience of true love, the kind of love that transcends death (the very kind we associate with Ennis and Jack). He could only reunite with his true love and find peace through death...the very scenario some of us dare to hope for Ennis.
Heath was not at all like his namesake in that he seemed to be universally admired and commended for his kindness and generous spirit. But maybe his spirit finds some kind of fulfillment in the demise of his body and the going forth into other kinds of experiences that our limited senses cannot apprehend. Leslie's remarkable story very much seems to suggest this, and, for me at least, that provides some solace.
Meryl:
If we're thinking along metaphysical lines, I thought of the larger picture when I saw the quote on this photo that Clarissa posted in another thread today. Who's to say that Heath's not somewhere out there discovering a new corner of the cosmos? 8)
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