I agree with what has been said so far. I'm sure Jake is having a difficult time with all of this, after all, who wouldn't? I've lost some very close friends, and it does take time to come to terms with the loss. It can even hit you harder than losing a blood-relative. I remember a member of the 70's group The Moody Blues saying that 'you have family that you love, but you CHOOSE your friends, and that the band had become like brothers'. As to Jake's reactions, I'm sure everyone (in the media, especially the tabloids) will be trying to over-analyze his every statement or hint of body language to make something out of it, that isn't there. Makes for good, sensationalist copy, but doesn't really inform. I hope that Jake does keep his own counsel, and deals with his grief in his own way, with the help and support of those who are closest to him. He has a wonderful network of family and friends to help him get through this. Not to mention a wonderful community of respectful fans here at Bettermost, and elsewhere.
We're all there with you, Jake!!!!