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serious crayons:
"Why do we care so much?  Who are we?"

Ellemeno asked these questions on another thread, one in which participants have been spending countless hours analyzing impossibly minute, almost invisible, details of the movie. I've long wondered those same things myself. What is it about us that makes us so crazy -- and I do mean crazy, but in a good way -- about Brokeback Mountain?

When I met Front-Ranger recently, we discovered that we both love fish tacos, and wondered, sort of jokingly, if there might be correlation between Brokeback-loving and fish taco-loving. (Results of a poll proved inconclusive, though did produce some good recipes.) Then yesterday I met YaadPyar and we were wondering, in a mystified way, what we all have in common that might explain this passion. I started reeling off what I assumed were obvious basic commonalities: "Well, we're open-minded, we like to analyze things, we like movies -- " and she stopped me to point out she's normally not all that into movies!

So what is it about us? I've seen this question raised before -- have raised it myself, in fact -- but I can't say I've ever been fully satisfied with the answer. We have different ages, genders, religions, sexual orientations, ethnicities, personalities, jobs, backgrounds, cities, hobbies, families, favorite cowboys  ;) ...  We even have different reasons to hang out at BetterMost: some love to dissect the movie, some more interested in building community, and so on. And if we do have a few things in common, those characteristics aren't exclusive to Brokeback-lovers. Lots of people who are open-minded and analytical and like movies preferred Capote!

The one thing we all seem to share (or at least, to have shared at some point) is this huge, unexplainable, consuming passion for one particular movie (and/or short story). But why?!?!??

Front-Ranger:
FOr one thing, I have to start out by giving credit to Annie Proulx for developing an eponymous story that applies to everyone no matter what our age, gender, orientation, location, etc. I like to think back to that day in October, 1997, when The New Yorker came  in the mail and think about you, me, Diana Ossana, and Randy Quaid (!) all reading the story at the same time and having the same reaction. If that isn't a universal story, I don't know what is!!

serious crayons:

--- Quote from: Front-Ranger on June 16, 2006, 02:47:50 pm ---FOr one thing, I have to start out by giving credit to Annie Proulx for developing an eponymous story that applies to everyone no matter what our age, gender, orientation, location, etc. I like to think back to that day in October, 1997, when The New Yorker came  in the mail and think about you, me, Diana Ossana, and Randy Quaid (!) all reading the story at the same time and having the same reaction. If that isn't a universal story, I don't know what is!!

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I agree totally, F-R, but in practice it's not universal -- lots of people enjoyed the movie or story or both, but weren't overwhelmed with emotions. (To be honest, I was one of those people in regard to the story -- I liked it a lot as literature, but then blithely moved on with my normal life -- until I saw the movie. I know that plenty of others, yourself included, who were originally moved by the story.)

So I guess the question is both, what makes this movie and/or story different from all others, and also, what makes US different from all others who were exposed to them, liked them just fine, but weren't consumed by them?

To put it in personal terms, what is it that is causing me, five months (five months!) after first seeing the movie to still wake up thinking about it every single morning? When I detach myself long enough to consider that, I find it just plain weird. I loved "Memento," for instance, but didn't think about it longer than a few days -- and then only in the most casual, occasional way. I realize Brokeback is a different kind of movie, with more of an emotional impact, but still ... ?!? I don't tend to think in these terms, but it's almost like a mystical thing.

ednbarby:
Shoot.  I wish I knew.  I'm continually being surprised both by people liking it whom I was sure wouldn't and by people not liking it whom I was sure would.

For what it's worth, one who falls in the former camp returned one of my two "lenders" to me yesterday and basically said he really liked it because it "stays with you" like a "great book you finish reading and find the characters live inside your head for a long time afterwards."  He said he prefers books and movies like that to fluffy ones that you walk away from and don't give another thought.

All the other common thread trial balloons I've attempted to fly have so far crashed and burned.  Is this one thing we all have in common?

serious crayons:

--- Quote from: ednbarby on June 16, 2006, 04:24:16 pm ---All the other common thread trial balloons I've attempted to fly have so far crashed and burned.  Is this one thing we all have in common?

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I know, they all have for me, too. I keep trying, though. It MUST be something mystical. Either that, or I'm going to have to join the "Ang Lee inserted subliminal one-frame messages in some copies of the film" camp, and assume that all those people who aren't here just saw different copies.

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