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Can someone help with an astrology question?
delalluvia:
Hmmm, hard to say.
His lover of 14 years has been gone just over a year? Correct? I guess people have different mourning periods, but if someone says they're 'not ready to date yet', sadly, that usually either means exactly that or that means they're not ready to date YOU.
Either way, I don't see this going anywhere you may want it to. I suggest you don't invest your heart any deeper than 'hanging out' together.
injest:
actions speak louder than words! come on...don't be cynical! and we don't know when he said that about not being ready to date...if it was in Jan it would be an entirely different thing than if he said it yesterday!!
(Poor Jeff....we are just getting all up in your business!! LOL....just a buncha busy bodies!)
delalluvia:
--- Quote from: injest on August 25, 2006, 12:53:43 am ---(Poor Jeff....we are just getting all up in your business!! LOL....just a buncha busy bodies!)
--- End quote ---
[embarrassed face] I know, I know. But heck, might as well give someone the benefit of our experience, eh?
When I was in mourning for a past relationship - much less a passed away loved one - and I told would-be suitors that I 'wasn't ready to date'. I really meant it. No matter how hard they courted or tried to come on to me. It got to be irritating that they wouldn't take me at my word.
And I've also been told by lovers/bed buddies that they weren't ready to date and I obliged them by not demanding anything more...just to find out a week/month/year later that they had moved in with someone else - while we were still sleeping together. :P
injest:
but he KNOWS this guy...has for 14 years...it could work out...some do and some don't...I would rather vote for giving love a chance than to NOT...sometimes you just have to take the plunge and offer your heart.
you have to make your choice..are you going to be Ennis or are you going to be Jack?
I vote Jack..yes you could get hurt, but you might find something wonderful! Either way at least you will be living your life not just cruising thru...
(Ok promise Jeff I am now retreating back to my cubbyhole..gonna mind my own beeswax!)
Does anyone believe me?? LOL
vkm91941:
Jeff I am happy for you, and I wish you well with your friend. Just take it easy, take your time and see what developes if it's meant to be it'll happen and if it's not you'll at least strengthen your friendship and have a good time in the process and who amoung us couldn't use that.
Take care honey and all the best of luck to you and Chris.
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