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isabelle:
Hi everyone,

I hadn't been around for ages , and then I log in and ... come across the ONE topic that's been looming large on my mind lately !  (this is what I love about this forum) . Stripey , thanks for this thread , and I can only agree with you on the happiness of single life (though as someone rightly stresses, there's a price to be paid either way) .

I am 44, and the longest (not happy) relationship I was in lasted for 9 years (7 of which we lived together under the same roof). As Mandy says , being a "wife" or partner to anyone, male or female, simply doesn't work for me . I have come to the happy and public assertion that I sure ain't the marrying kind , but I'm not the "living together as a couple " kind either ... and not even the "in a relationship" kind ! I know for a fact that I have always been happier when I have been on my own. Is it shameful if I say I suspect I am the " one-night-stands" kind ??  :o

Kelda:
Hey Isabelle. Great to see you here! And no that's not shameful!! as long as you are both consenting adults!

Lynne:

--- Quote from: isabelle on August 17, 2010, 04:44:27 pm ---Hi everyone,

I hadn't been around for ages , and then I log in and ... come across the ONE topic that's been looming large on my mind lately !  (this is what I love about this forum) . Stripey , thanks for this thread , and I can only agree with you on the happiness of single life (though as someone rightly stresses, there's a price to be paid either way) .

I am 44, and the longest (not happy) relationship I was in lasted for 9 years (7 of which we lived together under the same roof). As Mandy says , being a "wife" or partner to anyone, male or female, simply doesn't work for me . I have come to the happy and public assertion that I sure ain't the marrying kind , but I'm not the "living together as a couple " kind either ... and not even the "in a relationship" kind ! I know for a fact that I have always been happier when I have been on my own. Is it shameful if I say I suspect I am the " one-night-stands" kind ??  :o
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Hey Isabelle!

It is great to see you again - welcome back!

I'm with Kelda - consenting adults - do what feels right to you.

isabelle:
Hi Lynne and Kelda !


--- Quote from: Kelda on August 17, 2010, 04:59:45 pm ---Hey Isabelle. Great to see you here! And no that's not shameful!! as long as you are both consenting adults!

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Oh KELDA !!   I might be French , but still ... YES , only between consenting adults !

Kelda:

--- Quote from: isabelle on August 17, 2010, 05:15:42 pm ---Hi Lynne and Kelda !

Oh KELDA !!   I might be French , but still ... YES , only between consenting adults !

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