Long story short, either you guys want to play by the rules or you don't.
Please don't misunderstand, Fran. I think you do a wonderful job. I do play by the rules (except when I make a mistake, which we are all capable of). I love that we have rules and I even agree with all of them (especially the "give others a chance to play and wait your turn"). The only rule I don't agree with is the one that says it's okay for a moderator to delete someone else's post.
I just know from experience that people make mistakes, forget rules, etc. and that not everybody is going to live up to the very high standards set here. I'm fine with impartial, even-handed pointing out of mistakes (which you are very good at, Fran. It's commentary whilst pointing it out, that I have a harder time with).
As I said in my PM to the moderators a week or so ago, it seems like we have to accept and play around people's mistakes. And since the careful moderators are the ones who update the excellent list of already-played words, and we all use that as our base when choosing a new word to play, mistakes drop into some oblivion by not making it onto that list. (The list which I suggested we begin keeping, and for which I will admit I was hoping to get some acknowledgment.)
So anyway, I love and value this game and, as you know, I have strongly admired your playing of it, Fran.
Clarissa