"Set in an era before AIDS, support groups or that Jerry Springer episode, 'My Husband Has a Gay Cowboy Lover,' when Ennis' wife (Michelle Williams) discovers his secret, she represses it, heartsick for years, with no point of social reference to base any decisions on. The isolation worked both ways, as the two lovers were just as bereft of support. Jack laments to Ennis, who is growing apart from him, 'You don't know what it's like to get so little -- of something which you need so much!' Which brings to mind a
Zappa song -- 'He's just a cowboy for a day / Of course, his evening's not complete / Without some meat in the seat' -- with the somewhat ambiguous title, 'He's So Gay.'"