Wow! Do you by any chance have anything by 271horses? (I'm particularly after "widower for one year")
AJ (271horses) never finished Widower...and I really wished he had. I have most of it. I thought I had all of chapter 5, but it looks like I missed the last bit of it. I don't recall if he ended with that chapter, or got through chapter 6.
What I do have complete is Roots. Which, IMO, stands apart from all the other BBM fanfiction I've read. Roots is epic in scope, and tells the story of Rich and Earl. Let me know how, and I'll get it to you.