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Br. Patrick:
--- Quote from: ifyoucantfixit on January 08, 2008, 02:29:50 pm ---\
I love that story....I bet you dont know why... Its just good to see I am not the only shallow person
when it comes to thinking of peoples bodies when it comes to attraction... :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
If you are that way..Then I dont feel so bad... love ya darlin...love ya to death and beyond janice
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Lil' Darlin'
I was told by my Therapist that God MADE bodies beautiful because they are created in the image of the Creator. So, you'll understand when I tell you that 20 or so years ago, I was in this department store and saw a man with a BEAUTIFUL BUTT~! I cautiously followed him for a really long time until his wife asked him, "Honey, why is that man following you?" YIKES, I was caught and turned the other way and moved quickly as I could with discretion. But (or Butt), I just can't resist a good BUTT and that, I have learned is now OK because "my heart doesn't condemn me" (1 John: 13-24) so neither does the One Who Is~! AND WE'RE NOT SHALLOW, we just know what Beauty is~!
{{{{{{{Cyberlove}}}}}}}
br. p
Artiste:
Thanks very much Br. Patrick!
Your two stories are making my day happy!!
Yes, I wondered often how many men are bi-s or others... and am still puzzled by them!!
I had so many married men (who had wives) in the past... which made me question.
On Oprah tomorrow, her show is about wives (married to men) who are lesbians, I figure. So will that be similar to my puzzle as to straight or bi-s men?? Or to your's?
Hugs!!
Br. Patrick:
--- Quote from: Artiste on January 08, 2008, 11:45:30 pm ---Thanks very much Br. Patrick!
Your two stories are making my day happy!!
Yes, I wondered often how many men are bi-s or others... and am still puzzled by them!!
I had so many married men (who had wives) in the past... which made me question.
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In my experience.. going back to 1973, the people who are the most Screwed Up are bisexual. But that's only in my experience. Terry, my homeless roommate had an antisocial personality disorder. He was also an alcoholic and beat me up badly several times. But I cared for him so much that I put up with it. Earlier in my life I have known a bisexual man who seemed to be split in half. He could have sex with men and love it. He could have sex with women and love it. But talking to him about both in the same conversation made him ballistic. Another friend I had back in the 70's really shouldn't have been married in the first place. He liked sex with men so much more - and he was a really nice guy.
Wow, I wonder what has happened to these people? They seemed unhappy with themselves and it was understandable when they were pulled both ways. Again, this is only my experience.. Your mileage may vary~! Actually, in my earlier days, the fact that you had so many men who had wives would have made me jealous. I think all gay guys fantasize about having sex with a straight man. Latter Days, the film, starts out that way.
For me it was like bookends. The first guy I had sex with after coming out had a pregnant wife and was horny~! I was glad to oblige and even had a return engagement with the guy a few weeks later! My last was with Terry, who had been married and had 5 kids~! I don't need to have sex with anyone anymore (which is a good thing since I am a monk!!).
{{{Cyberhugs}}} ;)
br. p
brokebackjack:
--- Quote from: Br. Patrick on January 09, 2008, 12:46:02 am ---In my experience.. going back to 1973, the people who are the most Screwed Up are bisexual. But that's only in my experience. Terry, my homeless roommate had an antisocial personality disorder. He was also an alcoholic and beat me up badly several times. But I cared for him so much that I put up with it. Earlier in my life I have known a bisexual man who seemed to be split in half. He could have sex with men and love it. He could have sex with women and love it. But talking to him about both in the same conversation made him ballistic. Another friend I had back in the 70's really shouldn't have been married in the first place. He liked sex with men so much more - and he was a really nice guy.
Wow, I wonder what has happened to these people? They seemed unhappy with themselves and it was understandable when they were pulled both ways. Again, this is only my experience.. Your mileage may vary~! Actually, in my earlier days, the fact that you had so many men who had wives would have made me jealous. I think all gay guys fantasize about having sex with a straight man. Latter Days, the film, starts out that way.
For me it was like bookends. The first guy I had sex with after coming out had a pregnant wife and was horny~! I was glad to oblige and even had a return engagement with the guy a few weeks later! My last was with Terry, who had been married and had 5 kids~! I don't need to have sex with anyone anymore (which is a good thing since I am a monk!!).
{{{Cyberhugs}}} ;)
br. p
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My reply more properly belongs on the bi thread, Patrick, and that is where I placed it. Much love, my friend
http://bettermost.net/forum/index.php/topic,4836.msg314874.html#msg314874
Artiste:
Thanks Br. Patrick, and thanks brokebackjack!!
Since it is bedtime, I will ask Ennis and Jack if they are going to bed with me!!
I appreciate both of your comments... and will answer later.
Hugs, hugs!!
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