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Title: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: YaadPyar on February 10, 2008, 07:06:07 pm
Please join the BetterMost community in a moment of silence at 3:00 PM ET, this Tuesday, February 12

Hi folks -

I'm not around here much these days, but have been following the developments since Heath Ledger's passing.  Regardless of the divergent opinions expressed about his death, each of us has felt a unique connection with and gratitude toward Heath and what he brought into our lives via Ennis Del Mar.

So I am suggesting that we do something born out of that sentiment.  There is tremendous power in thought and feeling.  To have the intention of sending peaceful, loving, powerful vibrations to the soul of Heath Ledger, wherever you believe him to be, is to offer real comfort and solace to someone who is no doubt suffering from confusion, loss and remorse, as we ourselves have.

Everyone is invited to join in a collective moment of silence with the very specific intent of sending those energetic, compassionate thoughts and feelings exactly where they belong (Heath, his family, friends...). We know he passed away sometime on Tuesday, January 22; exactly when is not known, but probably sometime between noon and 3:00 PM.   

This Tuesday will be the 3-week anniversary, so this is an invitation to observe a moment of silence at 3:00 PM ET, this Tuesday, February 12.  You can be on-line, at home, at work - just a simple moment of silence, collectively observed.  Feel free to spend that time in silent contemplation, thought, prayer, meditation... however you choose to create that peaceful intention, and send it to whomever you feel needs it, including yourself.

Another idea, looking a bit further ahead, is to repeat the moment on Heath's birthday. That's less than two months from now, and I'm sure a lot of us will be thinking about him on that day. Maybe a chat would be in order that day, too.

(This idea has been put together with the great input of various moderators, who offered wonderful suggestions, some of which have been quoted directly above - thanks).
 
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Meryl on February 11, 2008, 02:28:00 am
Thanks for this beautiful idea, Celeste.  It's great to see you back here, Friend.   :-*

Here's a lovely mandala you posted way back when.  It may help us get in the mood.  :)



(http://i66.photobucket.com/albums/h269/merylmarie/mandala.gif)
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Ellemeno on February 11, 2008, 04:01:41 am
Yap, having you here is a silver lining.  :-*  It's a great idea.  My moment of silence may have to be internal only - Mini-Meno and I are just settling into French class at 3pm on Tuesdays, with kids flying and rolling around us.  Not silent, but Heath would probably have enjoyed the scene.  :)  And some articles say his mother is/was a French teacher.
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: myprivatejack on February 11, 2008, 06:53:39 am
I find it a nice idea.I knew the news,for the timetable difference,very late at night this January 22th.I'll see what time is 3:00 ET in Spain-if someone can tell it to me,I'm be very grateful-and I'll join to it;it'll be good to meditate about everything has passed and will pass in our respective lives at the same time.I'm sure Heath would have enjoyed this. :)
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: MaineWriter on February 11, 2008, 07:38:43 am
I find it a nice idea.I knew the news,for the timetable difference,very late at night this January 22th.I'll see what time is 3:00 ET in Spain-if someone can tell it to me,I'm be very grateful-and I'll join to it;it'll be good to meditate about everything has passed and will pass in our respective lives at the same time.I'm sure Heath would have enjoyed this. :)

You are in Spain, right? So there is a six hour difference. 3 pm in New York is 9 pm in Spain.

http://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/

L
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: opinionista on February 11, 2008, 07:40:07 am
I find it a nice idea.I knew the news,for the timetable difference,very late at night this January 22th.I'll see what time is 3:00 ET in Spain-if someone can tell it to me,I'm be very grateful-and I'll join to it;it'll be good to meditate about everything has passed and will pass in our respective lives at the same time.I'm sure Heath would have enjoyed this. :)

Hola. 3pm ET is 21 hrs. here.


To Celeste,

Hi! I also think it is a great idea!
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: myprivatejack on February 11, 2008, 08:51:08 am
You are in Spain, right? So there is a six hour difference. 3 pm in New York is 9 pm in Spain.

http://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/

Hola. 3pm ET is 21 hrs. here.

To Celeste,

Hi! I also think it is a great idea!

Thanks,friends¡Hola,opinionista¡ No matter the time it´ll be,I´ll be there for Heath. :'(
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: belbbmfan on February 11, 2008, 10:52:27 am
I'll be at a Neil Young concert tomorrow evening. I don't know if 'Old Man' will be on the playlist, but if it is, I'll know who I'll be thinking of.

This song was played at the memorial service in Perth.
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: j.U.d.E. on February 11, 2008, 11:11:38 am
I'll be nowhere special tomorrow, but my heart and mind will!

Thank you Celeste! So nice to see you here!  :-*

j.U.d.E.
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Brown Eyes on February 11, 2008, 01:15:53 pm
Thanks for organizing this Celeste.  It really is a lovely idea.
 :-*


Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: YaadPyar on February 11, 2008, 01:29:02 pm
Thanks to everyone for the warm welcome and good wishes.  So many friendly, familiar faces...
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Shakesthecoffecan on February 11, 2008, 01:42:58 pm
Thanks to everyone for the warm welcome and good wishes.  So many friendly, familiar faces...

Hey Friend, It is so good to see you here again. I miss you and think of you often.

In Silence,

Truman
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Ellemeno on February 11, 2008, 03:04:41 pm
Hey Friend, It is so good to see you here again. I miss you and think of you often.

In Silence,

Truman


I just remembered that the first time you became more than a screen name to me, Truman, was when Celeste told me that you and she were friends.  That's what made me pay attention to you, and now look!  You've broken bread with my mother, sister, and husband.  :-* to Truman.  :-* to Celeste.  :-* to all healing Brokies.
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: chefjudy on February 11, 2008, 05:42:26 pm


 :) nice to see you on the board again, Celeste - it's been awhile, eh?  We missed your insight,
wit and presence, put a boot in the fire and stay longer this time................. :D
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Kelda on February 11, 2008, 05:56:46 pm
mine will also be internal only - I'll be at a band practice - but I'll be thinking of our Heath and smiling
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: David In Indy on February 11, 2008, 06:14:23 pm
Sounds good Celeste! Count me in!

So 3:00 TOMORROW, correct?

Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: YaadPyar on February 11, 2008, 09:32:01 pm
Sounds good Celeste! Count me in!

So 3:00 TOMORROW, correct?



Hey Birthday Buddy -

I suck at the time translation thing - Leslie and others seem to have it mastered.  Here's what I can confirm:

Date:  Tuesday, February 12
Time: 3:00 PM ET (USA), which is also 1500 ET (USA)


One resource I've used, for anyone translating this for their local region, is http://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/ (http://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/).  I'm sure others can suggest good ones as well. 

I know our planet, and all the souls on it, will benefit from even just this moment.
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: David In Indy on February 11, 2008, 09:36:08 pm
Hey back at ya, Birthday Buddy!! :D

I'm in the eastern time zone here Celeste, so I'll plan on doing it at 3:00 here. Thanks for the info!

Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Delmardeb on February 11, 2008, 10:38:24 pm
Great idea-I will definitely join in with the moment of silence at 3:00pm for

our beloved Heath.  :'(  Will be with you Brokies in spirit tomorrow.
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: roryennis on February 11, 2008, 11:42:15 pm
I too think it's a wonderful idea.  Just a quick wave to everyone on the East coast of the USA ;D
Since Heaths B-day and my Grandmom's B-day are on the 4th of April (a Tuesday this year) I'll be sending up a prayer for the both of them.

This may sound weird or maybe just wishfull thinking, but I believe that even when the physical body is gone the soul still lingers around to help and guide their loved ones. I swear there have been a few times that my Grammy has helped me through some very tough decisions, or maybe it's just intuition. It's like a feeling you get that something isn't right, and sometimes things just "fall" into place to make a good thing even better.
I know this sounds sappy but I believe in the afterlife.
 
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: louisev on February 11, 2008, 11:54:22 pm
not sappy at all, Rory!  I too believe in life after death.  And I'm not the only one here on Bettermost who does!
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Aloysius J. Gleek on February 12, 2008, 12:14:18 am
I'll be at a Neil Young concert tomorrow evening. I don't know if 'Old Man' will be on the playlist, but if it is, I'll know who I'll be thinking of.

This song was played at the memorial service in Perth.



Neil Young - Old Man - Live at Massey Hall
[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vef03k5i8VI[/youtube]
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: David In Indy on February 12, 2008, 12:19:42 am
*David raises his hand in the air*

I believe in life after death too! :D

Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Peter John Shields on February 12, 2008, 12:52:43 am
Oh boy so sad hey...gosh how will we move on from this...everything seems to have stopped
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: YaadPyar on February 12, 2008, 01:12:27 am

Neil Young - Old Man - Live at Massey Hall
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vef03k5i8VI (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vef03k5i8VI)

Thanks for the video, John.  Here are the lyrics:

"Old Man"

Old man look at my life,
I'm a lot like you were.
Old man look at my life,
I'm a lot like you were.

Old man look at my life,
Twenty four
and there's so much more
Live alone in a paradise
That makes me think of two.

Love lost, such a cost,
Give me things
that don't get lost.
Like a coin that won't get tossed
Rolling home to you.

Old man take a look at my life
I'm a lot like you
I need someone to love me
the whole day through
Ah, one look in my eyes
and you can tell that's true.

Lullabies, look in your eyes,
Run around the same old town.
Doesn't mean that much to me
To mean that much to you.

I've been first and last
Look at how the time goes past.
But I'm all alone at last.
Rolling home to you.

Old man take a look at my life
I'm a lot like you
I need someone to love me
the whole day through
Ah, one look in my eyes
and you can tell that's true.

Old man look at my life,
I'm a lot like you were.
Old man look at my life,
I'm a lot like you were.

Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: belbbmfan on February 12, 2008, 07:56:07 am
thanks for the video and the words.

I've already seen the playlist, Old Man isn't on it. But I'm sure I'll be thinking of Heath anyway. It's difficult not to....
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Kd5000 on February 12, 2008, 11:55:44 am
So there will be no talking/posting on Bettermost at this time period, I suppose.  Sounds like a good idea. Too bad, there's no bell to ring on Bettermost at 3EST. ..  I guess BBM radio can't do something to this effect?? I always thought the music used in PLATOON was so emotional  in creating a feeling of a terrible terrible sense of loss. The title is ADAGIO FOR STRINGS by Samuel Barber.
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: YaadPyar on February 12, 2008, 12:32:07 pm
So there will be no talking/posting on Bettermost at this time period, I suppose.  Sounds like a good idea. Too bad, there's no bell to ring on Bettermost at 3EST. ..  I guess BBM radio can't do something to this effect??

Great idea.  Don't know if it's too short notice for that to happen....
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: j.U.d.E. on February 12, 2008, 12:36:31 pm
This means for continental Europe 9pm (21:00) and 8pm for the UK (20:00), correct? How long should the moment of silence be?

I always get goose bumps when I listen to G. Allegri's "Miserere" (the 1963 version with soloist Roy Goodman). Sooo beautiful. So heavenly...  :'(

www.youtube.com/watch?v=mgRKVfSH3rs (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mgRKVfSH3rs)
www.youtube.com/watch?v=-34W97tfFbc (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-34W97tfFbc)

j. U. d. E.
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: YaadPyar on February 12, 2008, 12:58:55 pm

How long should the moment of silence be?


I think of a 'moment' as at least a minute, and then for however long you wish...  I don't know that a moment in time correlates specifically to the clock.

Here's a web site that converts the time for you:  http://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/ (http://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/)
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: j.U.d.E. on February 12, 2008, 01:14:08 pm
Here's a web site that converts the time for you:  http://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/ (http://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/)

That's were I checked. Just wanting to make sure I didn't miscalculate.

I think of a 'moment' as at least a minute, and then for however long you wish...  I don't know that a moment in time correlates specifically to the clock.

I know, I know Celeste! But since it was suggested that during that moment of silence nobody posts, I asked, so that Brokies would know when they'd be 'allowed' to post again..  :-\

j. U. d. E.
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: YaadPyar on February 12, 2008, 01:40:22 pm

...since it was suggested that during that moment of silence nobody posts, I asked, so that Brokies would know when they'd be 'allowed' to post again..  :-\


Hmmmmm - good question.  I'd say a moment on-line will be a minute?  I didn't think about that really, so whatever y'all think is best...
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: LauraGigs on February 12, 2008, 02:01:31 pm
So there will be no talking/posting on Bettermost at this time period, I suppose.  Sounds like a good idea. Too bad, there's no bell to ring on Bettermost at 3EST. ..  I guess BBM radio can't do something to this effect?? I always thought the music used in PLATOON was so emotional  in creating a feeling of a terrible terrible sense of loss. The title is ADAGIO FOR STRINGS by Samuel Barber.

RodneyWY played that at our Memorial service for Heath and Jackie in Denver the other day.  It's a deep piece.  And trust me: if you're in the middle of a string orchestra playing it, OMG!!

And Neil Young?  Gawd, I can hardly listen to any ballad of his without tearing up — and that's under good circumstances . . .

Kd, you could make a request on the Bettermost Radio thread.
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Ellemeno on February 12, 2008, 02:03:18 pm
Someone might inadvertently post on BetterMost during the Moment, and if they do, we'll just love 'em and move on.  :)
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: mariez on February 12, 2008, 02:14:02 pm
I love this idea.  There is indeed tremendous power in thought and feeling.  A little less than two hours from now...


Marie
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: YaadPyar on February 12, 2008, 03:36:10 pm
Too bad, there's no bell to ring on Bettermost at 3EST. ..  I guess BBM radio can't do something to this effect?? I always thought the music used in PLATOON was so emotional  in creating a feeling of a terrible terrible sense of loss. The title is ADAGIO FOR STRINGS by Samuel Barber.

Unfortunately the radio tie-in isn't possible today.  It's a great idea, and I know Eric , our BBM Radio guru, will look into future opportunities.
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: jstephens9 on February 12, 2008, 03:51:53 pm
This is a great idea. Thank you for thinking of it. Ironically enough I just discovered this thread about 5 minutes ago and it is now 10 minutes until 3:00pm EST. Things like that make me wonder about the meaning of a lot of things. I will definitely join in the moment of silence.

Jack
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: David In Indy on February 12, 2008, 04:06:07 pm
Wow. At first it felt a bit awkward, and then it became very emotional.  :'( :'( :'(
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Penthesilea on February 12, 2008, 04:11:59 pm
Dear Heath I hope you heard our silence. We miss you.
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: David In Indy on February 12, 2008, 04:13:23 pm
Dear Heath I hope you heard our silence. We miss you.


{{{CHRISSI}}}

Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: mvansand76 on February 12, 2008, 04:19:04 pm
I played one of Heath's favorite songs instead.

We miss you so much, Heath, I hope you realise how much we love you for what you gave us...

Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Meryl on February 12, 2008, 04:26:27 pm
It was such a gift to bond with Heath and all of you for a few minutes.  It felt very powerful.  Thank you again, Celeste.  :-*
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: YaadPyar on February 12, 2008, 04:29:43 pm
Thanks to all who participated for joining in.  Feel free to continue posting your experiences. 

I love the sense of connection with the essence of what it means to be part of the human family in a moment of loving silence.
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Shakesthecoffecan on February 12, 2008, 04:32:35 pm
Thanks to all who participated for joining in.  Feel free to continue posting your experiences. 

I love the sense of connection with the essence of what it means to be part of the human family in a moment of loving silence.

I felt connected with you all, and the ages.
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Penthesilea on February 12, 2008, 04:57:22 pm
I logged on into chat, only to be quiet together with other Brokies. Maybe this sounds silly and contradictorily, but to me it made perfect sense.
I was glad to see Janice and Joe Ann in there.
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: j.U.d.E. on February 12, 2008, 04:58:50 pm
I went on little walk with my cats keeping me company - Brokie and Sayif (meaning 'summer'). Nobody but me around. It is probably too cold outside. But I felt warm and apeased, thinking about Heath's wake and the beautiful sunset and all the smiling people. I was thinking about his loved ones and also Jake. I hope he has someone to keep him warm and to comfort him.

(http://i175.photobucket.com/albums/w131/locham/SAYIF-12FEB2008.jpg)
[Sayif]

(http://i175.photobucket.com/albums/w131/locham/SAYIFBROKIE-12FEB2008.jpg)
[Sayif and in the back Brokie]

j. U. d. E.
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Seaweed727 on February 12, 2008, 05:39:17 pm
Celeste,

Thanks so much for your most thoughtful idea.  Have read all the messages sitting here alone and in silence and letting the tears roll down across my cheeks.  As a part of the grieving I have witnessed too much disagreement, scorn and hate expressed at times.  Thankfully, that's not the case here as much and I wish everyone peace, but especially for Heath's soul, to his family, loved ones, and friends.

This has been a lovely gesture and hopefully carries as much healing power and understanding as attempted by Mrs. John Twist when placing her hand on a grieving Ennis' shoulder in the movie.

Thanks again.
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Ellemeno on February 12, 2008, 11:21:58 pm
Earlier when I said we'd be at French class, I forgot that 3pm ET is noon PT.  So I was actually at an event with The Parrot Lady and her parrots.  She had three South American parrots who interacted with the kids and did stuff, as she told us about the rain forest. 

After a while she said something like, "And now, for something really special, I will bring out our only Australian parrot!"  Her saying "Australian," reminded me to check the time.  It was two minutes to Moment of Silence.  So, sitting there, with kids and parrots and moms, I had my moment with you all.  Love, Clarissa
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Jeff Wrangler on February 12, 2008, 11:48:28 pm
I read a couple of prayers for Heath while I sat quietly at my desk.
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: belbbmfan on February 13, 2008, 03:00:39 am
thanks for the video and the words.

I've already seen the playlist, Old Man isn't on it. But I'm sure I'll be thinking of Heath anyway. It's difficult not to....

HE DID, HE DID!! Neil Young apparently changed the playlist and suddenly there it was, solo, just him, his guitar and harmonica. I was fighting back the tears. I'm sure Heath did this!

It was a very special moment during an absolutely fantastic concert!
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: David In Indy on February 13, 2008, 03:37:00 am
HE DID, HE DID!! Neil Young apparently changed the playlist and suddenly there it was, solo, just him, his guitar and harmonica. I was fighting back the tears. I'm sure Heath did this!

It was a very special moment during an absolutely fantastic concert!

That's wonderful Fabienne!!! :)

Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: MaineWriter on February 13, 2008, 10:23:13 am
HE DID, HE DID!! Neil Young apparently changed the playlist and suddenly there it was, solo, just him, his guitar and harmonica. I was fighting back the tears. I'm sure Heath did this!

It was a very special moment during an absolutely fantastic concert!

Oh wow, that's amazing, Fabienne. Thank you for sharing this.

Old Man has always been one of my favorite Neil Young songs. That, and Cinnamon Girl.

L
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: belbbmfan on February 13, 2008, 12:20:44 pm
Oh wow, that's amazing, Fabienne. Thank you for sharing this.

Old Man has always been one of my favorite Neil Young songs. That, and Cinnamon Girl.

L

Cinnamon Girl was one of the encores. It was awesome. I'm on a Neil-high!
Title: Re: A Moment of Silence (for Heath and all of us)
Post by: Brown Eyes on February 17, 2008, 03:34:50 pm


Neil Young really is an excellent musician and is great in concert.  I saw him years and years ago, and it still stands out as a fantastic performance in my memory.

Thanks for the info Fabienne! :)