Well I have't read the book but I did read the article at the top and his responses to gender studies man Cameron Le Vogt (sp?), and I'm a bit inclined to say a plague on both their houses. There should be room for wimps and flamers and big butch macho guys. I see leather men and bears who are camper and more pathetic than faeries and dragqueens, so I'm not very impressed with his "just guys" stance.
There is still discrimination against us and plenty of hatred, but not - thank the Great Teapot - much left here in NZ. We still have our mind-forged manacles, though, and the memory (and the memory of the memory) of when just admitting to yourself that you loved your own sex was an uphill job. They should both cut each other some slack. There is room for activism, and analysis (but Post-Modernism seems to be finally getting its comeuppance, thank TGT), and just getting on with life too.