

He was adorable.
Very sane, very humble, very open. Honest. Humorous but not jokey. Polite. Courteous.
David Denby of the New Yorker was ok, but not wonderful. Once in a while, he would make mistakes, and after (Denby) mispronouncing some actor's name the fourth, fifth or
sixth time--Jake would gently correct him, and say it again, correctly, in context, to make sure the audience understood.
Jake said that when he first read the
Brokeback screenplay, at the end he cried--just as when he first read the
Donnie Darko screenplay, he cried. He still sees
DD as something very, very special, very serious to him. When it was shown at Sundance, his parents and sister Maggie saw it, and went up to him and they all cried--I think he was saying that they realized that he had a difficult time during adolescence, and they suddenly got it. They certainly seem to be a very loving family. Jake also mentioned that, growing up in a very theatrical-movie-ish family, they felt that each of them should be 'collaborative' towards their work. He says that as he is maturing, he says that this was wrong--he now sees himself as a working actor, and that it is his job is to show up on time, be prepared, and give 120% to the writer or director's vision.
Again, very humble guy. NOT deprecating, just NO pretense at all.
He also said Heath in Brokeback was 'transcendent.' That he, Jake, felt it a real challenge during Brokeback to attempt to work up to Heath's level, but that the set was filled with love.
Denby mentioned several times that Jake turns 30 December 19 (he was born in 1980), and at some point, Jake said, sorty of jokey but not jokey, Jeez, stop with the 'turning 30' already!
Interesting aside--he told how he left Columbia University, how whenever he had a 30-45 minute break between classes he would run out and do auditions--and that's how he got the part in
October Sky (which
I adored, by the way.)
There was lots more--90 minutes worth! Beforehand--wine and hors d'oeuvres, good ones!
Great evening. Thank you, Paul!
Hope you can remember more, Meryl--if I can post more, I will.