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A few IMDB posts I saved from 04/09/06
« on: August 04, 2007, 01:50:02 pm »
Gut-Wrenching Pain From Home Viewing    

   by - tokimat 2 hours ago (Sun Apr 9 2006 09:58:12)
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 UPDATED Sun Apr 9 2006 10:13:38

 
The last time I saw Brokeback Mountain in theatres was over a month ago. I thought it was fantastic and yes, I cried when Jack died but it didn't seem to have much impact other then when I actually saw it in the theatre.

Two days ago I bought the DVD and was watching it on my couch by myself with the lights out and the fireplace roaring but the from the first tent scene on, I just felt this gut wrenching pain. I was sweating and finding it so hard to breathe. I struggled through the rest of it and took some pepto bismal thinking I had come down withthe flu or something.

Yesterday night feeling good as ever, I tried to watch it again but as soon as I saw the DVD case I started feeling sick again. This movie is haunting me and I want to just throw it out the window but I can't. Has anyone else felt like this from viewing the movie in the privacy of their homes rather then the theatres?

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Re: A few IMDB posts I saved from 04/09/06
« Reply #1 on: August 04, 2007, 01:50:51 pm »
"Jack, I swear..." - An Enduring Apology

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Re: A few IMDB posts I saved from 04/09/06
« Reply #2 on: August 04, 2007, 01:51:48 pm »
Is society clinging onto.....    

   by - ijb4000 1 hour ago (Sun Apr 9 2006 11:25:35)
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its prejudices of a minority group where it appears it's still socially acceptable to mock and joke about them and deny them human rights?

I'll elaborate. I found the that the Oscar debacle was more than just a controversy but an ironic paradox. 40 years ago people from ethnic minorities were cruelly treated as 2nd class citizens, denied their rights, and made jokes of by many people who "held" society as their own.

As time has progressed much of this prejudice, bit by bit has genuinely broken down between ethnic minorities and white people in the USA and Europe but further than that, even for those who are still racist or very very conservative, it has also become very socially unacceptable for them to call people of different religions and colors names or be treated unfairly with regards to employement etc and rightly so.

However during this time gay people's right have been much slower to progress, partly due to invisibility but also a code of silence and fear amongst society about it that has only began lifting in recent years and been discussed openly. Because of this slow progress we have a paradox: Racism is unacceptable but Homophobia isn't.

Those same people who scream about homosexuality now as being wrong, were 40 years ago screaming about mixed race marriages, who can sit where on the bus, whether they should be given fair opportunities, etc. Paradoxically it is those same (type of) people who then rejoiced recently over Crash's win, not because they were fans before they'd even heard of Brokeback, but rather in spite at Brokeback. Basically they are maintaining their prejudice; but have now moved onto a social group where homosexuality is coming out into the open, and where it's still acceptable for them to hate us. Add relgion to the melting pot and you've got a right nasty stench. Remember religion is a free choice for us all, homosexuality isn't! And yes I do believe in Jesus - but he said nothing about homosexuality. I don't believe everything in the Bible. It is a report of what happened, not everything about what actually happened. To believe everything it says is to close your mind.

So I go back to my original question: Is society trying to cling onto the last social group where it is still socially acceptable to bad mouth them, deny them their rights and joke about them on TV? To me Brokeback Mountain was never about this when I first saw the film - it was about love and I want to maintain as much of that integrity of the film as is possible - but other issues and facts have been made clear to us all as a result of its making - the hysteria of those with a reinvigorated anti-gay agenda.

I know this is an unashamedly political post, in so far conservatives politicise homosexuality. Other than that I don't hold socialist left-wing views as I'm sure many would like to categorise me and others.

Would like to hear what others think on these issues. It would be really good if you could respond - let's be open and frank about what's happening to gay people at the moment.

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Re: A few IMDB posts I saved from 04/09/06
« Reply #3 on: August 04, 2007, 01:52:53 pm »
BBM is an universal LOVE story...not only for GAY!   


 by - iam_usa2006 2 days ago (Thu Apr 6 2006 22:41:56 )
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After watching this BBM ...a masterpiece...and reviewed many of the posts here, I have a feeling that true love does exist..man to man..man to woman, woman to woman...regardless if the sexual orientation.

The highest level of human emotion achievement is LOVE....I am looking for that too,,,searching for long...it is not necessary for one to have that forever...not at all..as long as he/she hever has that moment...just like between Ennis and Jack.

BBM is not only a gay love movie...it is an universal LOVE story for every one who has a heart and soul....

What's the point for those hypocrite talk about religion and against sodomy??and yet none of them could love and be loved like Ennis and Jack? This IMDB BBM boards attracted thousands and thousands of posts....not because it is gay love....because many of the posters are non-Gay...but because all of us...are created equal...and we all longing for the true love....as in the BBM between Ennis and Jack....