Well, there have been times where I've "sat on my hands" (both figuratively and literally) after reading a post, and I've always been glad I did. It is very easy to misread something. If I read something I precieve to be negative, I just allow myself 10 minutes before I post a response. During those 10 minutes, I always come to realize that the poster was not trying to be negative. It was me. I wasn't reading their post correctly.
The whole purpose of Bettermost is to have fun! So let's have some fun, okay??