If it's any consolation, friends, I like big bellies...got one of my own!
I think all of us have something about our appearance we're not crazy about, and might change were we able. But I've come to feel that it might be more constructive to learn to love ourselves as we are...to recognize that each one of us is beautiful in our own unique way.
Yeah I see what your saying. It,s the old saying about it,s not whats on the outside it,s what,s on the inside, but: lets face it, when you get undressed and your stomach falls round your ankles, it really doesn,t matter how much your man tells you your beautifull, it,s just garbage. I mean, how can a hideous flabby stomach that looks like a shrivelled up prune be beautiful?
Example:
If a guy saw me, with flabby tummy, stretch marks, in (god forbid) a bikini on a beach and there next to me was Kylie Minogue, do you seriously think he,d pick me? I don,t think so lol. Men tell you your beautiful just to make you feel better and thats all very nice, but it,s a joke because it aint true lol.