Souxi, Ennis was hurting too!
Alma senior could have continued her marriage, but ended it viciously!! She ended it, not her husband!
Ennis would have kept on with the marriage, even after Jack's return! He was the decent one!
Besides Alma Senior was already playing the field even if she was married!! ??
A real lady married to a gay guy, finding out that he is a bi or gay man, does not become to act at all the way she did! Alma Senior is vicious, and she is seen that way too in the movie at that Thanksgiving!
However, Alma Jr. was kind to her father, even if she knew that he was a bi or gay man! Alma Jr. was not vicious, but could have been like her mother!! Alma Jr. is not anti-gay like her mother is!
Things to think about...
hugs!
OMG !!!!........OMG!!!!........I am practically speeechless,to think that
anyone would have this opinion of Alma.....I'm starting to wonder whether we saw the same movie or read the same story.....
"She could have continued her marriage, but ended it viciously"....
??......Alma was a woman, a wife and a mother........not a robot........not a saint.....
And Ennis was the "decent one" because "he would have kept on with the marriage"......
?.....Yeah, pretty decent of him to spend all his work holidays with someone else, quit his jobs without any consideration for his family's financial welfare, not to mention the extra sexual activity......
decent..
And finally..."a real lady finding out her husband was bi or gay, would not have acted the way she did"...
.......
Now let me tell you how a
real lady in that position acts......she puts up with it for a while, even welcomes his gay friends into her home, she accepts that her husband is gay, and that he cannot love
her like she loves
him, then eventually she realizes that she needs to remove herself and her two daughters from the situation, so her husband can go on with the life he needs and she can go on with the life that she needs......she remains on friendly terms with her husband and his male partner, invites them to share Christmas and other activities with his daughters in her new family setting, and she goes out to work to give some financial security to her and her daughters.....She does not discuss the real reason for her marriage breakdown, she does not try to turn her daughters off their father by telling them that he is bad, or that he is a homosexual, she knows in time, when they are old enough, that he will tell them, in the way that they will understand......Was
she hurting???.....too dam right she was hurting, and she knew her husband was too.....She loved him until the day he died....
........She sounds a lot like Alma dont you think.........well its not Alma I am writing about here....
.........I am writing about
MY OWN MOTHER........