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I was expelled after making a Brokeback tribute film.
« on: March 12, 2006, 11:10:35 pm »
I made a gay love story set in a high school environment as my English final.

Read about it at my site. -- www.BrandonFlyte.com

It's just such a shame that the double standard for same-sex relationship exists. I'm personally straight, and so are the people who made the movie with me, but the fact that we wanted to do something bold and support the gay movement gets me expelled, I just think it's insane. This is the civil rights movement of my generation. Gay or not, I plan to be a part of it.

-Brandon

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Re: I was expelled after making a Brokeback tribute film.
« Reply #1 on: March 12, 2006, 11:33:46 pm »
I was expelled after making a Brokeback tribute film

WHAT?!?!?!?!

Hey Brandon, this has all the makings of a major national story.  I don't know how far you want to take this, but this could become a huge deal.  There are several gay rights organizations that have no issue taking on the cases of straight folks caught up in the culture wars, so there are some contacts there.  But the media can also make this into a major issue.  But you have to make the decision about how far you want to go with this.  Let us know and then I will offer some contacts and advice carrying forward.

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« Reply #2 on: March 13, 2006, 06:23:27 am »
ECHOING Phillips....WHAAAAAT???

Dear Brandon....I left a short comment on your homepage as a reminder of my support for your project.  You...TRULY....have renewed my faith in the future of America. 
Thank you Philip for putting your care and support behind Brandon. 

I'm there too....just let me know what I need to do!!

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Re: I was expelled after making a Brokeback tribute film.
« Reply #3 on: March 13, 2006, 10:32:34 am »
Welcome to our world, Brandon.

Sigh.

Does your high school have a Staight-Gay Alliance chapter?  Probably not, but it sounds like it needs one.

Let us know what we can do to support you.
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Re: I was expelled after making a Brokeback tribute film.
« Reply #4 on: March 13, 2006, 01:21:08 pm »
My school does have a Gay-Straight Alliance. Very small, but I don't think they know of this yet.

Nancy, I just wanted you to know how touched I am by your comments. If you have any specific suggestions for how I should handle this, I'm all ears.

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Re: I was expelled after making a Brokeback tribute film.
« Reply #5 on: March 13, 2006, 05:30:28 pm »
You can start by TELLING EVERYONE.  Tell the full and complete story with all the facts, and the truth will out. 
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« Reply #6 on: March 13, 2006, 07:28:51 pm »
Hi Brandon....!!  YES.....tell EVERYONE and ANYONE who will listen.  Send a copy of your posting on your web page fo your local Newspaper.  Letters to the Editor!!    Shorten it a bit and send the PERTINENT stuff.  Often editors won't pour through long submissions.  Contact the local branch of ACLU!!  I don't know where you live...Brandon but if you can't find a number to call...let us KNOW.  We'll find it for you....believe me. 

Stay in touch and let us know if you need ANY help at all.  We're with you in this!!  And Brandon?  It would be MUCH easier to just 'let this go' and not fight.  But I can tell you're a guy with a heart and soul.  Not a person who will let this 'injustice' done to you....slide by!! 

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Re: I was expelled after making a Brokeback tribute film.
« Reply #7 on: March 14, 2006, 01:14:31 am »
Brandon,
I agree vehemently with all said above.  Let us know if we can be any help.  As was mentioned, a good place to start is the local ACLU office.  This is the sort of thing that outrages me and makes me want to get out my soapbox.  Much love and courage to you, however you decide to approach it.
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Re: I was expelled after making a Brokeback tribute film.
« Reply #8 on: March 14, 2006, 07:13:18 pm »
I'll be on KOIN 6 news tonight at 5pm. If you're in the PDX area, check it out.

My site will have updates, as well.

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Re: I was expelled after making a Brokeback tribute film.
« Reply #9 on: March 15, 2006, 09:05:30 pm »
This article just appeared in The Advocate, saying Brandon has been invited back to his school. 

Brandon, is this true?  If so, is this a victory or just the spin your school made to make the publicity go away?

In any case, you're definitely getting attention!  ;D

http://www.advocate.com/news_detail_ektid28048.asp
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Re: I was expelled after making a Brokeback tribute film.
« Reply #10 on: March 15, 2006, 09:32:19 pm »
This article just appeared in The Advocate, saying Brandon has been invited back to his school. 

Brandon, is this true?  If so, is this a victory or just the spin your school made to make the publicity go away?

In any case, you're definitely getting attention!  ;D

http://www.advocate.com/news_detail_ektid28048.asp
Go Brandon, yea!   

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« Reply #11 on: March 16, 2006, 05:05:47 am »
BRANDON!!!  Very KEWL!!   Proud of you Brandon!! 
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Re: I was expelled after making a Brokeback tribute film.
« Reply #12 on: March 16, 2006, 02:50:04 pm »
Congratulations, Brandon -- very good work!
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Re: I was expelled after making a Brokeback tribute film.
« Reply #13 on: March 16, 2006, 04:50:42 pm »
As a lot of you have probably read, I've been slammed by today's edition of the Oregonian. (Article available online)

Please visit www.BrandonFlyte.com for my rebuttal.

This fight is far from over.

-Brandon

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Re: I was expelled after making a Brokeback tribute film.
« Reply #14 on: March 17, 2006, 12:50:58 am »
I replied on the site:

Welcome to another day in the world of the media and culture wars.  As I indicated to Brandon from the outset (and unlike so many who would offer their opinion - I actually communicated with him prior to this becoming a major issue), this was going to be a story that would likely draw a lot of media attention because it comes at a time when people are still discussing the film in the media.  Further, as part of the culture war, there would be an obvious media angle here.

What I have seen is pretty predictable.  Culture Wars - The Home Game Edition.  I -was- surprised at the shoddy journalism being practiced at The Oregonian which wouldn't pass muster at a high school paper.  Editorial commentary in both the headline and body of the story appears to pass as straight news reporting.  So much for the print press being the last salvation of hard news in this country. Whether or not Brandon "lied" is an opinion and doesn't belong in a headline.  It appears to be Amateur Hour over at that particular newspaper. 

The response by school officials seems more spin and damage control than fact.  Had this been some great misunderstanding, I would have expected to see denials that Brandon was asked to attend community college to complete his education, but instead there was a waffle about it "not being mandatory."  Then why offer it?  As far as Brandon going online with his complaint, welcome to the new world of online citizenry where students can now actually practice First Amendment rights outside of anonymous messages in the high school bathroom.

The odd insertion of the threats to school officials by the reporter in the fourth paragraph was shoddy journalism as well, because it implies that Brandon had something to do with it, particularly coming just after a quote that Brandon allegedly "disrupted" the school.  If this is the kind of "professional journalism" practiced by Ms. Owen, she needs to find another day job.

At this point, the uninformed blog community has gotten into it in all of the predictable ways.  Line up on the side of the culture war you soak in, distribute the second/third/fourth/fifth-hand talking points, and miss the point entirely.

As I suggested at the outset, the ultimate goal here seems to be to get things back the way they were before this debacle occured - Brandon back in school (and going to class).  There is no evidence of a giant publicity stunt here.  Most of the comments from people arriving from the blogs do little more that regurgitate talking points based entirely on the editorial view of the blog site.  How profound of the hit and run comment crowd.

I'd add to BetterMost users:

My personal motivation in all this, as I've written to Brandon, is to see some sort of compromise arrived at between Brandon's parents and school officials.  It's obviously gotten harder with the media attention at this point with everyone now backed into respective corners, but compromise is the only way this issue goes away.  IMHO, that means Brandon goes back to school, does some repenting for his past attendance issues and agrees to be a more responsible student for the remainder of the term, and the school drops the community college nonsense.

As I wrote in Our Daily Thoughts in my mini-blog, I've been reminded of my own high school years after being subjected to Can't Hardly Wait (which BTW has become as common on HBO as Spiderbabe has been on Cinemax/Skinamax in the past few months.)  The high school years are usually annoying to people during the time you are there, but fondly thought of upon reflection years later.  Spending the rest of them parked in a community college is not the best outcome to aim for here.

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Re: I was expelled after making a Brokeback tribute film.
« Reply #15 on: March 18, 2006, 08:09:45 am »
Just viewed Brandon's video that everyone seems to be up in arms about. 

I'm sure Brandon won't mind if I post it here.  It's on his website too...!! 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F-VoKWe5QHc&search=Brokeback%20High%20Brandon%20Flyte
Here's the infamous Snuggle Scene

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2XQmvEToA0E&search=Brokeback%20High%20Brandon%20Flyte
I think this looks like a damn good job....if you ask me!! 

Hang in there Brandon!! 
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Re: I was expelled after making a Brokeback tribute film.
« Reply #16 on: March 18, 2006, 08:13:32 am »
)  The high school years are usually annoying to people during the time you are there, but fondly thought of upon reflection years later.  Spending the rest of them parked in a community college is not the best outcome to aim for here.



This is SO true Philip.  Those days are NEVER recaptured!!  I'm so glad you've got a hand in all this Philip.  Gives me a sense of relief....for sure!!!

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« Reply #17 on: March 19, 2006, 06:15:32 am »
]I'm sure Brandon won't mind if I post it here.  It's on his website too...!! 

Thanks for posting this link Nancy.

Hey Brandon, you know you're one of those rare individuals that makes me believe that there is hope for this world.  Some of this situation is of your own making, and some of it has been thrust upon you, but as you grow older you will realise that the part you can take the most pride in is how you deal with this situation, after the wheels were set in motion.  For us gays, the most important and cherished straight people in the world are the ones who are so comfortable with their own sexuality that they can be equally comfortable with every one else's.

Kudos to you, for your film, and for your composure in the face of all this attention.
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Re: I was expelled after making a Brokeback tribute film.
« Reply #18 on: March 19, 2006, 05:09:49 pm »
This incident just reinforces to me that gay rights ARE civil rights.  How anyone can NOT make that connection is beyond me.
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Re: I was expelled after making a Brokeback tribute film.
« Reply #19 on: April 20, 2006, 07:27:29 pm »
Dude, I left a message on your site. A copy is below.

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    Dude! I wish I knew about this sooner. We would have helped you out. Glad to see that you are back at the school you belong in. Best wishes for a successful life and more than anything, Thank You for making that positive movie! You're the greatest straight dude on the planet!

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« Reply #20 on: April 28, 2006, 07:09:35 pm »
Brandon,

How gratifying to learn there are guys like you in the younger generation. What you attempted to do would attract a great amount of attention from several quarters, as has been pointed out, but it's up to you concerning how far you want to go. It can be a rough ride, but for gays to achieve strides, it's going to take the efforts of people like you. Even if you decide not to seek vindication for your efforts that were cut short, thanks many times for having courage. There will come a day when you will recognize how important you are.
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« Reply #21 on: May 05, 2006, 10:47:19 pm »
The latest seems to be he has not been allowed to go to the prom.  I really haven't seen him around here much lately, and when this thread floated back towards the top, I decided to go and check the web site.

It sounds like more drama than an episode of OC.  We never had this much drama in our school....
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