I love this bumping of old threads. I have just finished reading through this one and now feel compelled to watch B.B.M again.
I had never before noticed Jack's mother and her pairing of solid blue over plaid. I am astounded now, how glaringly obvious it is, yet I completely missed it. How true the phrase, the devil's in the detail. Ang is a master of subtleties and nuance, nothing heavy handed or overplayed.
I suspect for me, one of the problems after the first viewing, is that I am so overwrought with emotion by this stage, that the remainder of the film is seen through a veil of tears.
I remember the photo taken of all the Brokies at my house, immediately after watching BBM, still shell shocked after all this time.
I find myself these days, evaluating friendships on the basis of those who do and do not "get" BBM. I suspect that is why I have formed some of the most meaningful friendships of my life, since moving to Bettermost. I always thought I was an island, now I find I am not isolated, far from it.
Back to the shirts, I am even more convinced now that Jack's mum knew of their existence. If not then why the mirroring of apparel ? It would make no sense and I am positive that not one detail in this masterpiece is superfluous.