Hey Kirk!!
Nasty that you can't plan your wedding as you wanted because of legal uncertainties.
BUT you ARE getting married and this is wonderful, wonderful news. A small ceremony can be a really big thing. I wish you a superb, unforgettable day to mark the beginning of many years of happiness.
As for the celebration in 2010, it will also be the anniversary of 4 f'in years together. The occasion for a big Reunion for sure
All the best to both of you