Again, there is no uniform concept of decency. And I for one have met very few gay people who weren't at least trying to find a way to be their better selves. But I'll admit that I've never met a perfect gay person. However, there are no perfect straight people either, even though many of them are trying. Do you really expect gay people to be angels, David? Will you show them how?
of course he does not. Please do not read things into his words, David is a kind and gentle person and doesn't fight, so don't. He would be first to admit he isn't perfect.
and there IS some degree of uniformity in decency standards, Gary, it used to be called the "Golden Rule" and to be honest a LOT of us could benefit by thinking about it now and again.