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Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)
« on: November 22, 2009, 04:37:30 pm »
A friend just E-mailed me this posting - Sounds somewhat familiar!   :)

Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)

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Date: 2009-11-21, 7:10AM MST

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MWM from Cheyenne, discreet, 6' 2", average build, a couple extra lbs but not fat, not too bad looking, friendly , masculine, 100% disease free, very clean, wants similar man who is also 100% disease free. I still haven't found the right man. Most are "all talk" and not really interested in doing anything I guess. I'm looking for a "true friend" who can be trustworthy, not just someone to get off with. While seeking, I'm not involved with anyone else as there is just too many diseases out there. I'm seeking a man who wants a discreet, safe, clean, healthy "best friend" friendship and wants mutual sex on a regular basis. I'm open to just about anything from mild to wild to please you if its clean and safe. My wife isn't interested in sex anymore so I would like someone who wants a relationship on a regular basis with health concerns and safety. We could even look like "just friends" to our families, or keep it discreet. Any age, body type, or race. I'm very outdoorsy so if you hunt or fish, etc, we can do hobbies also. Maybe your not getting what you need at home either, or your single and can't find the right person to give you the safe pleasure that you need. I'm for real, U be too.


Location: NOCO/Wy
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Re: Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)
« Reply #1 on: November 22, 2009, 04:52:51 pm »
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I'm very outdoorsy so if you hunt or fish, etc, we can do hobbies also.

 :laugh:  He's not going up there to fish!


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Re: Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)
« Reply #2 on: November 22, 2009, 05:09:31 pm »
Since he mentions the words "safe" and "clean" like a million times, I guess he isn't interested in going down to Mexico...


pretty tragic add really. He is obviously not happy in his relationship and is looking for a "fishing buddy". What a GDBOAUS for both him and Lureen his wife

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Re: Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)
« Reply #3 on: November 22, 2009, 08:18:37 pm »
I hate when people do shit like this.

be a man and divorce your wife, and then go find what you want.

::)


Tell him when l come up to him and ask to play the record, l'm gonna say: ''Voulez-vous jouer ce disque?''
'Voulez-vous, will you kiss my dick?'
Will you play my record? One-track mind!

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Re: Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)
« Reply #4 on: November 22, 2009, 08:20:53 pm »
think he might drive the "14 hrs" down to Texas?

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Re: Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)
« Reply #5 on: November 22, 2009, 08:34:24 pm »
I hate when people do shit like this.

be a man and divorce your wife, and then go find what you want.

::)

But Chuck, what if he needs both. What is someone who is truly bisexual supposed to do?
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Re: Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)
« Reply #6 on: November 22, 2009, 08:36:21 pm »
think he might drive the "14 hrs" down to Texas?

Why?? Are you offering??

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Re: Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)
« Reply #7 on: November 22, 2009, 08:47:02 pm »
But Chuck, what if he needs both. What is someone who is truly bisexual supposed to do?

He doesn't state that he's a bisexual. 

His ad states he's looking for someone "discreet" and that his wife is not interested in sex anymore.  I take that to mean someone who is willing to sneak around and help him cheat.  If his wife was truly interested in sex he wouldn't have placed the ad.

If that's the case, then divorce your wife and find another woman or man who will be interested in you.


Tell him when l come up to him and ask to play the record, l'm gonna say: ''Voulez-vous jouer ce disque?''
'Voulez-vous, will you kiss my dick?'
Will you play my record? One-track mind!

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Re: Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)
« Reply #8 on: November 22, 2009, 09:00:34 pm »
Why?? Are you offering??

 ;D
  :laugh: at my age, not much anymore! naw, and I'm happy with my homelife. I am just curious as to how far he would drive, after all that odds are against him in Cheyenne, and he does seem picky.

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Re: Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)
« Reply #9 on: November 22, 2009, 09:03:07 pm »
If that's the case, then divorce your wife and find another woman or man who will be interested in you.

That could work.
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Re: Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)
« Reply #10 on: November 22, 2009, 09:08:47 pm »
I hate when people do shit like this.

be a man and divorce your wife, and then go find what you want.

::)

Or not, and just deal. Jeez. ...

I hate it, too, Chuck.
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Re: Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)
« Reply #11 on: November 22, 2009, 09:23:56 pm »
But Chuck, what if he needs both. What is someone who is truly bisexual supposed to do?

My understanding is that bisexuality means you are interested in either sex. It doesn't mean you have to have both.


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Re: Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)
« Reply #12 on: November 22, 2009, 09:32:21 pm »
My understanding is that bisexuality means you are interested in either sex. It doesn't mean you have to have both.

Right. But there lots of bi married men out there who do. I don't know about bi married women, but I'd suspect that must apply to some of them too.
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Re: Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)
« Reply #13 on: November 22, 2009, 10:36:57 pm »
Right. But there lots of bi married men out there who do. I don't know about bi married women, but I'd suspect that must apply to some of them too.

No doubt. But my point is, bisexuality isn't an excuse for infidelity. It just increases the population of people you can be unfaithful with. It's not about "needing both."




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Re: Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)
« Reply #14 on: November 22, 2009, 11:22:49 pm »
No doubt. But my point is, bisexuality isn't an excuse for infidelity. It just increases the population of people you can be unfaithful with. It's not about "needing both."

I'm not suggesting infidelity. What should a person in this situation do?
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Re: Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)
« Reply #15 on: November 22, 2009, 11:39:54 pm »
Wow.  Makes me wistful.

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Re: Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)
« Reply #16 on: November 22, 2009, 11:46:34 pm »
I'm not suggesting infidelity. What should a person in this situation do?

I'm not sure. But in my case (I am bisexual) I chose the path of least resistance, marriage to an opposite sex person, and I've tried to live within the bounds as much as I can. There are many times I've wondered what my life would have been like if I'd been more courageous. This is all covered in the novel The Women's Room.

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Re: Seek Friend - 51 (NOCO/Wy)
« Reply #17 on: November 23, 2009, 12:16:25 am »
I'm not suggesting infidelity. What should a person in this situation do?

Well, Front-Ranger's answer is both better informed and more eloquent. But my answer would be, whatever the person should do isn't necessarily any different than what a straight or gay person should do.

Again, as I understand it -- and people with firsthand knowledge can correct me if I'm wrong -- the fact that you're attracted to people of both sexes doesn't mean you need to be with people of both sexes. It just expands your options. That is, if you're a bisexual man married to a woman who is no longer interested in sex, you can have an affair with a man or a woman (assuming you can deal with the moral implications of the infidelity). Or you can get a divorce and get involved with a man or a woman (assuming you find the divorce part morally acceptable). Or you can get your wife to change her mind. Or you can not have sex.

In other words, you have the exact same options as you'd have if you were straight or gay, only your other partners could include people of either sex.

The way I understand bisexuality, as a straight woman, is this: Let's say I'm attracted to both George Clooney and Brad Pitt. That doesn't mean I must have sex with both, it simply means I'd be happy having sex with either. If I were bisexual, I might feel the same way about George Clooney and Angelina Jolie. Same thing -- I don't need both, but either one or the other would do.

Again, those of you who know from firsthand experience can correct me if I'm wrong.

I used to think that bisexuality offered the best of both worlds, as presumably it put the entire human race up for grabs, so to speak, as opposed to just half of it. A bisexual friend educated me that it's a bit more complicated than that -- that there are social challenges, the neither-fish-nor-fowl identity that Front-Ranger alluded to. So it's not easy street. But maybe someday, as social attitudes lighten up, it will be the ideal.