LOL!!!
Del, men have been putting themselves at personal risk in a multitude of ways for humanity's entire history in order to ensure the survival of the species, tribe, country, and family. So I don't think men would shirk the responsibility of bearing children if that were the case. Honorable men would step up to the plate and do what was needed.
Wow, everyone took this and ran with it before I could come in here and clarify. I meant in Lee's daughter's situation, specifically, and a great many men in reality. THEY don't have to care for the children, not when they hew to the 'men work, women childcare' model. They don't share in the daily grind of cleaning, feeding, clothing, up middle of the night feedings/holding hands nightmares/sick care, carting and hauling the children around to do the domestic errands. If they did, suddenly they'd not be quite so anxious to have as many as 'god wills it'.
True story:
A young child-bride responded with the exact same pious words when her doctor asked her if she wanted birth control right before her wedding.
He replied dryly, "Honey, if you're a healthy woman, you'll have a child for every year of your marriage."
She took the birth control pills. Her wry comment years later, "I was young, not stupid."