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Re: Let's discuss
« Reply #10 on: October 14, 2017, 10:13:47 pm »
Yes, you are  certainly right on that.

I have the feeling that Jack would be more than willing to work at it.   But would Ennis?  I'm not so sure.


Tell him when l come up to him and ask to play the record, l'm gonna say: ''Voulez-vous jouer ce disque?''
'Voulez-vous, will you kiss my dick?'
Will you play my record? One-track mind!

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Re: Let's discuss
« Reply #11 on: October 15, 2017, 02:08:27 pm »
On that note:

I sorted out some old papers on my desk today, and unearthed a several years old scrap of paper with a joke on it that was probably meant for the photo caps on DCF, but I don't think I ever used it.

The picture would be of the boys sitting at the lake talking about Jack's marriage and Cassie.

Jack: "Truth is, sometimes I miss you so much I can hardly stand it."

Ennis: "Well, I never promised you to stem a rose garden."

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Re: Let's discuss
« Reply #12 on: October 15, 2017, 02:10:30 pm »
Btw where is Lena?

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Re: Let's discuss
« Reply #13 on: October 15, 2017, 02:11:55 pm »
What Lena?

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Re: Let's discuss
« Reply #14 on: October 15, 2017, 02:14:46 pm »
She started the discussion
Lena01

And now she is gone.

It would be really helpful for talking any further to read about her pov

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Re: Let's discuss
« Reply #15 on: October 15, 2017, 02:22:19 pm »
Well, she hasn't been logged on to the forum since she made that post.

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Re: Let's discuss
« Reply #16 on: October 15, 2017, 02:31:33 pm »
What is DCF?

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Re: Let's discuss
« Reply #17 on: October 15, 2017, 03:08:53 pm »
Yes, you are  certainly right on that.

I have the feeling that Jack would be more than willing to work at it.   But would Ennis?  I'm not so sure.

Sometimes it works if one partner makes every effort.  At least for a while...
I have some friends (female) who are constantly working on their relationships though (or because) their partners do not. And they all have been together for yeeeears! I believe,however, that  this is kind of masochistic... I would go mad with that...

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Re: Let's discuss
« Reply #18 on: October 15, 2017, 11:26:15 pm »
Sometimes it works if one partner makes every effort.  At least for a while...
I have some friends (female) who are constantly working on their relationships though (or because) their partners do not. And they all have been together for yeeeears! I believe,however, that  this is kind of masochistic... I would go mad with that...
Corax and Chuck,
My underlying precondition for this discussion is that both love each other. Therefore, it cannot be that one works on the relationship more than the other. I think the sticking point would be for Ennis to commit himself to Jack in the first place. What would need to have happened for him to do so? Ennis must overcome the issues with his daddy, his own identity issues and then also his identity issues within the society (think on confirming with the norm), which is including Alma and his daughters, then find a way how to deal with any discrimination in its different levels of hate (from just a strange look, to a curse word, to an actual physical action). He would need a lot of strength to overcome all these - were would that strength come from? From what kind of insight or knowledge or from what kind of event?
Ennis is someone who needs to be pushed - by people, by events and by life itself. He is not someone who actively pursues a dream or an ideal, that's for sure. But i strongly disagree that Ennis would be happy to let Jack do all the work while he's putting his feet up (after commitment to Jack!).

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Re: Let's discuss
« Reply #19 on: October 16, 2017, 09:53:17 am »
What is DCF?

DCF are the initials of another Brokeback forum,  the Dave Cullen Forum.   It was named that way because it was started by Dave Cullen, the author of the best-selling book Columbine.

The forum is still active, but the name has since changed to The Ultimate Brokeback Forum.


Tell him when l come up to him and ask to play the record, l'm gonna say: ''Voulez-vous jouer ce disque?''
'Voulez-vous, will you kiss my dick?'
Will you play my record? One-track mind!