Ahem. Getting back to the making love/hot fucking question....with Jack it would be making love. Work together all day, pal around, give him a foot rub before moving in for the first of many long, slow kisses.
With Ennis, it would be polishing off a pint of something, lots of coy, show-you-mine-you-show-me-yours foreplay, wrestling around and getting nasty. Next day he would ride off and I wouldn't hear from him again. Next day I'd go back to Jack, LOL.
Juan