I'm happy for you! But say, in what country do you live to be allowed to have a husband, as a gay man?
There are about 5 countries that now have gay marriages (Canada, being one a them, Spain another)
Then there are civil unions (UK) in a number a other countries (and some american states)
But what
really matters is that, in your heart, you can be thankful for the "husband" in your life - whether the "state" or society-at-large recognizes the relationship or not
Good on you Shuggy (The new-zealander - where civil unions are recognized, I believe)