Thank you Elle - strange that it took dottie and Lynne (and Pent) to discuss what I brought up on the first day of the posting (3 days ago) before action was taken:
If you were saying the same thing Dottie was, or what Lynne was, or what Chrissi was, I missed that, Roland. I just went and reread your posts, and still can't see that.
Do you mean where you wrote:
Sorry if this sounds critical, but I think the wording of the poll is slanted towards a yes answer. (but I still answered no - and here's why)
I didn't understand what the first part of that referred to, but it seemed like people could still easily vote no if that was their preference, like you did.
I actually thought you meant that by using the word "honor" in my question, it looked like I was implying that not posting birthdays in the banner would appear dishonoring, so my wording was swaying people to vote yes, just to show they honor people. I didn't think that would be an issue, so left it as is.
All this to explain that I did consider what I thought were saying. Just like I consider what Dottie and Lynne and Chrissi and everyone else in the thread have been saying. You just weren't specific and I misunderstood.
If I still don't understand - please explain further.