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Heath Heath Heath
Nikita111:
--- Quote from: LauraGigs on January 23, 2008, 02:53:44 am ---
Anything interesting up there in heaven?
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:'( :'( :'( :'(
my love
Penthesilea:
--- Quote ---For those of you who think I am crazy, fine. For those of you who understand, great.
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No, you're not crazy. I can't share your experience, your knowledge and your attitude. But that doesn't make me right and you wrong. Might as well be vice versa.
Alone the words 'right' and 'wrong' are not appropriate, because there is no obcetive, provable 'right' (in the scientific sense). I only use them to let you know what I mean.
As I already said: I'm happy for you, and I really mean this.
There can't be too many hugs around here these days, we all need them:
(((Leslie)))
Lumière:
--- Quote from: MaineWriter on January 24, 2008, 10:55:36 am ---It wasn't a dream. He was with me. We weren't in our corporeal bodies, we were in our spiritual bodies, but we were still real.
At one point we were on a beach talking about surfing, then I said, "And fishing. What's the point of that? You put a string in the water and wait for something to happen!" and Heath winked at me and said, "Well yes, but fishing trips can be fun!" LOL.
I don't know if this is any solace at all, but he really doesn't want us all to be so unhappy. He didn't leave us because he wanted to make us sad. He left because his work was done, and it was time to go.
Leslie
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I had goosebumps when I read that, Leslie.
It is hard to fathom why people die young. Infants die soon after they're born; teenagers, people in their 20's and 30's... It is hard to accept, although it happens everyday.
I happen to think that death is not the complete obliteration of a person's existence or essence or soul (whatever you wish to call it).. And yeah, I do believe in ghosts and spirits and 'out-of-body' encounters..
I had one "dream" a few years ago that stayed with me to this day. It was one of my grandmother who died when I was two years old. She never said anything to me, but just sat beside my bed and watched me sleep. It didn't feel like a "dream" when I woke up; it was an 'experience', a real one. My father has also had at least 2 of such experiences involving his deceased parents. These things happen.
I am sure it is hard for us to grasp how this is possible or why some people experience it and others don't..
I don't have an answer for that. All I can say is that, Leslie, you are 'lucky' to have found some solace when a lot of us are still trying to deal with the grief.
I thought I might repost something I wrote in Cameron's blog last night that is sort of tied to this...
I had a thought today that if we get this overwhelming feeling that Ennis is gone because Heath is gone,
we can console ourselves (or at least I do) with the thought that Ennis & Jack are together in the next (better) world.
For always.
There are no limits to their love.
There is no need to fear any longer.
They is no reason or way they can ever be separated.
They can ride with the wind or perch on the clouds or play the harmonica any way they like.
There are no boundaries now. No limits.
For Always.
That thought, friends, makes me smile, in spite of the grief. :)
Penthesilea:
Nikita, I just saw your posts(s). I don't know you very well, but you're in the right place here:
(((Nikita)))
Lumière:
I love this pic.
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