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CellarDweller:
--- Quote from: dejavu on April 06, 2011, 03:48:10 pm ---You know, I was thinking some more about this. Either the moron is just extremely rude, or maybe he has something else going on in his life...?
Like, you know, a wife or partner that he has to wait and find out what their schedule will be like this weekend, and therefore which day he'll be "free" to see you.... :-\
I know you said he didn't post his picture online because he's a teacher, but maybe there's more to it than that; maybe there's somebody else he's trying to hide from.
Moron either way you look at it.
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Debs, I posted that possiblity on DCF in Le Bar on 3/29 when he and I started talking.
And just as a follow up, he still hasn't texted me since my last message yesterday evening. LOL
Jeff Wrangler:
--- Quote from: dejavu on April 06, 2011, 03:48:10 pm ---You know, I was thinking some more about this. Either the moron is just extremely rude, or maybe he has something else going on in his life...?
Like, you know, a wife or partner that he has to wait and find out what their schedule will be like this weekend, and therefore which day he'll be "free" to see you.... :-\
I know you said he didn't post his picture online because he's a teacher, but maybe there's more to it than that; maybe there's somebody else he's trying to hide from.
Moron either way you look at it.
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All entirely possible. OTOH, it also sounds like what I've seen in more gay men than I can count: Waiting to see what else might turn up. :-\ >:(
Bad way to behave? To be sure. Common? Unfortunately so, at least from my observation.
Stay away from teachers unless they're really out. If they aren't, potentially they have too much to lose, so you'll inevitably end up sneaking around in dark corners and playing second fiddle to his need to remain in the closet. I'm actually not unsympathetic to the situation of a closeted teacher, but life is too short and closeted teachers have too many issues that I don't need.
ZK:
--- Quote from: CellarDweller on April 06, 2011, 06:03:34 pm ---Debs, I posted that possiblity on DCF in Le Bar on 3/29 when he and I started talking.
And just as a follow up, he still hasn't texted me since my last message yesterday evening. LOL
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Best forget about the moron, his loss not yours
dejavu:
--- Quote from: CellarDweller on April 06, 2011, 06:03:34 pm ---Debs, I posted that possiblity on DCF in Le Bar on 3/29 when he and I started talking.
And just as a follow up, he still hasn't texted me since my last message yesterday evening. LOL
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I remember now, that's true. You did post that you wondered if he might be married, when he didn't post his picture. But then the lack of picture seemed to be "explained" or "excused" by the part about him being a teacher.
I just thought the "I'll let you know" might give even more evidence to a possible other life.
Or it might easily be what Jeff says: keeping his options open. But if he can't even make a commitment for a weekend, you know he's not what you want.
In any case, whatever his situation, sounds like you've decided not to wait around for him, and that's good.
Jeff Wrangler:
--- Quote from: dejavu on April 06, 2011, 08:43:32 pm ---In any case, whatever his situation, sounds like you've decided not to wait around for him, and that's good.
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Agreed! :)
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