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What attracts you most
Scott6373:
Let me be the first to publicly admit, that I am initially attracted by looks, but they better have something to back that up with
tampatalon:
Lets see...Looks but don't have ta be good looking. In order I prefer Elks, Wolfes, Otters and then Bears. Then personality and lastly sex. But sex would be the hard part cause I always looked fer really strange thangs.
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moremojo:
The very first thing I notice is looks (I'm only human), but I don't go in for one kind of look. I'm attracted to lots of different "types" of guys. There's no physical formula that fits for me when trying to describe my attractions.
And then the personality comes into play, and this is very, very important. Like Wishes, I have had the experience of becoming acquainted with people whose looks were appealing, but lacked a commensurate personality, and the attraction withered; conversely, people who didn't attract notice at first on a purely physical basis can sometimes become beautiful in my eyes due to their charming inner qualities.
If the relationship develops into the physical realm, simpatico sex is essential if the relationship is to continue along those lines. The sex doesn't need to be "hot" or particularly passionate (in fact, I go in for more tender, gentle moods), but the sexual chemistry has to be there if the relationship is to have a physical component.
Lastly, I look for, or at least hope for a similar world-view or values in my partner. The values of the other would not have to mirror my own, but they would have to be ones I could respect (I couldn't date a virulent racist, for example). Compassion, sincerity, and the honoring of the life of the mind are all important aspects I hope to find in someone with whom I am intimate.
Brokeback_Dev:
I voted too. The first thing I notice is looks of course, but like TampaTalon, it doesn't necessarily mean good looks. Personality is most important. I also voted for money. What you guys don't think money is important? Ha
Doesn't have to be a lot of money just responsibility with money... Sex is good but really its not the most important thing to me. I look for compatibility
Scott6373:
--- Quote from: brokeback_dev on October 31, 2007, 01:58:11 pm ---I voted too. The first thing I notice is looks of course, but like TampaTalon, it doesn't necessarily mean good looks. Personality is most important. I also voted for money. What you guys don't think money is important? Ha
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Sure do, but the last time I went up to a guy and said I wanna f&*ck you, but let me see your financial statement first, it didn't go so well. ;D :laugh:
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