Thanks very much moremojo!!
I agree with you that sex is by women too, woman with woman, in public washrooms. In my case, at least twice, I remember by for now, that a female entered the washroom and wanted it; the second time, was another female. I, a male, (gay male), have been cruised also by males at times, in public washrooms; maybe most gay males have - I do not know if most straight males have!! ?? But such cruising I think is rare now?? I refrain from that as I would likely or probably be murdered or beaten or stolen there too by such a cruiser!! Some murders do happen there!!
Concerning public parks and sex there, I do not see anything wrong with that in SOME parks, that the whole public knows about - since even straights have sex there: female with male!! It would be more OK I guess and hope that signs are put there to say so!! And so far I have seen discreet sex in many parks - nothing else- no shown cheeks to ones passing by!! I do not go for sex in parks these days!! I have... years ago, but rarely and discreetly and went to his residence!!
Like you, I think that your friend did not merit at all that to him!!
I think sex outdoors is wonderful!!
At not too far from my art studio near San Francisco where I created paintings, the daily newspaper had partly headlined about a world famous (gay I presume) man having sex privately with another in a car at night!! But it did not mention about another world famous singer, a straight, who murdered in a hotel and got away with it, even if many witnesses were there - that killer was a friend of the cowboy president who was not president then when this happened!!
I applaud too Brad, and asks that he starts a thread to anwser our questions or cases, if he would like. It remains that some cops and some forces are bad or very bad!! - you have read some of my experiences, and I have other bad ones too, plus rare good ones!! Brad is obvious working great and happy to be in such a gay, etc., welcoming force; he is lucky too with his relationship with his gay partner!! I wish that he will answer some cases of ours!!
What do you think? And to all of you? Would Jack have went to a park and got murdered there?
Hugs!!