Thank you very much to everybody who helped, mostly Meryl, Peachy, Mouk for the picture and the the fact that she did get up there, now in winter, and placed this beautiful tribute, and to Mel (Snavel) for starting this thread.
I also agree about running it a second time and about flowers if it is possible to get them there somehow. I think the funeral company would forward them without problems, it's their job (but the problem is finding out which one it is).
I think donating the rest to a charitiy Heath supported (or to a similar organisation, meaning children or AIDS help in this case) would be another wonderful tribute.
(((Brokies)))