No decision yet, Melissa. I'm hoping Kerry will be able to find out for sure where Heath's resting place is so we can send our belated flowers.
As for the birthday flowers, I think the consensus is that we make that a separate effort. Maybe in March someone can start a thread asking for contributions for that.
As someone who suggested we make
future birthday flowers a separate effort, I actually feel good about using some of the donations so far for
this year's birthday. Either way works for me for this year's birthday flowers - either using what we already have, or taking up a separate collection.
I guess I thought this year's birthday flowers were a given, since we originally donated the money for flowers and the condolence notice, and any extra to go to one or more favorite charities of Heath's. Since we did not wind up sending the condolence flowers, we still have that amount available.