That Contra Costa Times piece on grief was totally right on. Thankx for posting.
I just watched Ang Lee's "Eat,Drink,Man,Woman" this evening, following his two earlier films, "Pushing Hands" and "The Wedding Banquet." One can certainly see demonstrated his profound interest in showing how we hide truths from each other, and from ourselves, and how our secrets work to injure and in some cases destroy our connections with, quite often, those persons closest to us, those whom we most love. I come to more and more appreciate this man's talents and skills and his approach to his art; his is a great gift to the world.