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Are you "Undateable"?
David In Indy:
--- Quote from: Mandy21 on May 17, 2010, 03:17:34 pm ---Katherine and Jeff, I agree with ya! Where IS the list that make women undateable? How chauvinistic of VH-1 to only focus on the potential faults of the male species, and by association, only on heterosexuals. >:( I didn't see the series, so maybe Chuck or someone who did can tell us if they even mentioned how restrictive they were being. AND I was also wondering if gay men viewed these same traits as deal-breakers amongst themselves.
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Yeah, pretty much Mandy. Although there are some up there that I don't have a problem with at all. For example, the underwear. Why would anyone care what kind of underwear he's wearing? If he has his pants on you can't see his underwear, and if his pants are off, hopefully the underwear is coming off too. BTW, I wear briefs. lol I always have.
I'll look back over the list again later on when I'm not so busy and point out some of the items I haven't a problem with, and perhaps add a few I don't see included up there. :)
wulfar360:
--- Quote from: Jeff Wrangler on May 17, 2010, 11:05:31 am ---I think its a bizarre mixture of the silly and the serious. Some I just don't get--and I don't mean I have no idea what the writer is talking about. For example, I don't get the objection to carrying a cell phone at the waist. Don't they sell holders made just for the purpose of carrying your phone on your belt? ???
Some of the items could be deal breakers. I hate sandals--or mandals--PERIOD--so I'd never give a guy wearing sandals with socks a first look, let alone a second. (Yeah, yeah, I'd have to give him a first look, otherwise how would I know he was wearing socks with sandals? ;D ) And flip-flops? Don't even think of going there. I can't even stand them on women.
(Today is graduation at the University of Pennsylvania. On my way into work this morning I passed a young woman in her cap and gown--and flip-flops. :P )
Boxers are dorky. I wanna see basket and butt! :laugh: And any man who can't wear briefs is probably undateable because he's overweight, not because of his choice of underwear.
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i wear flip flops all the time even in the winter at times i think its the hillbilly in me i go barefoot as mucha s i can i hate wearing shoes
and yes being over weight does make you undateable in our communnity which is why im not even lookin to many queens only lookin for the pretty and not anything deeper nmost just want the quick fuck not the long lasting relationships
wulfar360:
--- Quote from: Jeff Wrangler on May 17, 2010, 02:19:47 pm ---Oi. You can say that twice and mean it. :-\
Tell you what, even from a woman's perspective, I've been wondering about something else: "Creepily into Mom" comes close, but what about "Living at home/with Mom/with Parents," perhaps beyond a particular age? Does a woman want to date a guy who is 35 and still lives with his mother?
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ill be 35 and i had to move back to my parents a while back due to my dad having health issues and i havent been able to get back out on my own yet if someone wants to not date me cuz of thatfine doesnt sound like someone i would want to share my life with anyway
ZK:
--- Quote from: CellarDweller on May 15, 2010, 08:28:53 pm ---
81. Dirty Car ummm thats a problem?78. Whining guilty as charged
77. Jorts & Japris denim shorts are in fashion here (so either we're ahead of the world or more likely decades behind)
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72. Overly Creative Voice Mail . awww hell I love my voice mail
67. Can’t Throw Ball well I can it just never goes where I want it to
56. Bad Dancing yup thats me ! I put it down to genetics
54. Biker Shorts only when I cycle
38. Open-Mouth Breathing ummm how else am I supposed to breath
30. Wimpy Drinker does that mean I can't have a g and t? I mean I am gay after all
25. Bad Driver (Sissy/Rage) ummm does "if you can't drive you shouldn't be on the road " count
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OMG I am staggered I never thought there'd be that many!! Now I know why I am dateless. Oh well now I admit the problems I am half way on the path of recovery? Hello my name is Matt and I am .....
serious crayons:
--- Quote from: Kerry on May 17, 2010, 11:44:32 pm --- I was reliable and safe (and neat and clean
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And you don't wear Ed Hardy? ;D
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