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milomorris:

--- Quote from: SugarPCsHeart on August 25, 2014, 06:00:01 pm ---Also, it isn't always BDSM oriented either for the other people who obviously posted with no knowledge of the subject either.

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Thank you for clarifying.

I was the first one to make the comparison to BDSM. That was my error. The reason I brought BDSM up is because I thought the people who post here would be able to make the logical leap, and understand that both types of relationships can be healthy and work well for the couples in them. I never meant to imply that the spankings in a CDD relationship are in any way erotic.

serious crayons:
I don't understand. If it's not erotic, what's the point of corporal punishment? That's not even recommended for children these days, and I'm not sure why it would be considered an appropriate way to resolve conflicts between married partners. If you feel you have done something wrong enough to require "punishment," why not just apologize? Or, if you you both prefer to "punish" each other for wrongdoing, why doesn't he use the same form of punishment for you that you apparently do for him, whatever that is?

I'm not arguing that the relationship is abusive. It is obviously one of mutual consent, at least in your case. So if there's an erotic element, I understand.

You have no obligation to explain it here, of course, but as long as you bring it up, I'm curious.


Jeff Wrangler:

--- Quote from: serious crayons on September 24, 2011, 11:28:14 am ---Yes. It's the same flawed logic that produced this book:

http://www.amazon.com/Liberal-Fascism-American-Mussolini-Politics/dp/0385511841

Nazis were environmentalists and vegetarians. Many liberals are environmentalists and vegetarians. Thus, liberals are Nazis.

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Hmm. What's that saying about the person who brings the Nazis into an argument?  ;D

There was nothing "flawed" about my suspicions about writers who urge white people to have more children three years ago, and there is nothing flawed about it now.

CellarDweller:

--- Quote from: serious crayons on August 26, 2014, 12:00:04 pm ---I don't understand. If it's not erotic, what's the point of corporal punishment? That's not even recommended for children these days, and I'm not sure why it would be considered an appropriate way to resolve conflicts between married partners.
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I wonder about that as well.

milomorris:

--- Quote from: serious crayons on August 26, 2014, 12:00:04 pm ---That's not even recommended for children these days,

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A highly debatable point, but I don't think its worth derailing this thread to explore it. Let's just say that there are lots of people in both camps.

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