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Are "Dallas Buyers Club" critics guilty of "respectability homophobia"?
milomorris:
--- Quote from: Jeff Wrangler on January 30, 2014, 12:52:13 pm ---Unfortunately "warts and all" can sometimes look like "insidious homophobic propaganda," but that's life, I guess.
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Correct. That's why we black folks had such problems with the blacksploitation movies of the 70s.
serious crayons:
--- Quote from: Jeff Wrangler on January 30, 2014, 12:52:13 pm ---Unfortunately "warts and all" can sometimes look like "insidious homophobic propaganda," but that's life, I guess.
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I guess. And minorities, by the very nature of being in a minority, will probably always be more sensitive to how they're portrayed. But the sooner a group can move toward having a wide spectrum of characters out there the better, I would think. Maybe it's a chicken-and-egg thing, though; the more tolerance in mainstream society the less big a deal a flawed minority character is, because mainstream viewers recognize that it's about one individual, not everyone in the entire group.
I always remember Rupert Everett's quote when he came out and was asked whether he was afraid that from now on he'd only get cast as gay characters. He said if he were that would be OK because "We aren't, contrary to popular opinion, all alike."
x-man:
Perhaps all that you ask of me here is to tidy up a few loose ends regarding the points I was trying to make. To do much more would be to try to answer the question in the old saying, "Why hunt last year's wolf?"
"Are we still even talking about DBC?" you ask. No, the final 2 paragraphs of the Lowder article make clear he is moving beyond DBC to question media attention in general to the problem. That is where I was taking the argument, and replies by other BetterMostians seem to recognize this and accept its legitimacy.
--- Quote from: serious crayons on January 30, 2014, 10:31:29 am ---I don't really understand this, I guess. But I will say that I don't think I've seen many media portrayals of LGBT characters as "troubled, desperately unhappy freaks."
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You ask if by using words like LGBT portrayals of "troubled, desperately unhappy freaks" I am pointing to an "outdated genre." Such portrayals in films like Tea and Sympathy, Compulsion, Boys in the Band, Cruising, and the like are, I agree, scarcer these days. But I would suggest that the genre of stereotypical portrayals of LGBT characters may now be more subtle, but definitely not gone. To many people, LGBT characters on Will and Grace, or, say, 1 Girl 5 Gays, might be "glib, funny, nonsense," but they aren't quite as funny to us. And for those just looking for ammunition to use for their homophobia, programs like that certainly do provide it.
--- Quote from: serious crayons on January 30, 2014, 07:54:01 pm ---I guess. And minorities, by the very nature of being in a minority, will probably always be more sensitive to how they're portrayed. But the sooner a group can move toward having a wide spectrum of characters out there the better, I would think. Maybe it's a chicken-and-egg thing, though; the more tolerance in mainstream society the less big a deal a flawed minority character is, because mainstream viewers recognize that it's about one individual, not everyone in the entire group.
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I can disagree with very little here, but at their heart, your remarks are the way things ought to be, not the way they indeed are. We in the LGBT community would gladly move on, and know it would be better, as you suggest. But the real world keeps pulling us back and rubbing our faces in it. You say "mainstream viewers recognize that it's about one individual, not everyone in the entire group." This last sentence of yours is the very core of the differences that have always separated us in postings about this subject, going back to "Should Straight Actors Play Gay Characters." I suggest that mainstream viewers indeed do NOT recognize that offensive portrayals of minority groups are "about one individual, not everyone in the entire group." The mainstream is not made up of the thoughtful, educated people you seem to have in mind. Few people read essays and books by writers addressing this issue, most are not thoughtful, not educated, and not likely to be given to changing their minds about how repellent and dangerous the LGBT community is to their world. I am not talking about people in our own social circles and neighbourhoods, but in the world as a whole. For LGBTs, news from that world is increasingly alarming. Do you think many in the mob surrounding the Law Courts in Sierra Leone demanding death to all gays, have watched BBM or read Edmund White? Do Putin, his cronies in the Russian Parliament, and, it seems, the bulk of the Russian public, bother with reasoned treatments of LGBT culture?
I suggest that while we in NA and Western Europe are comforted by the increasing acceptance of equal marriage and the increasing acceptance that implies,, the situation in the rest of the world is getting ominously worse. Are these doings being reported in US media? They certainly are in Canada. The less optimistic side of me says that the mainstream is more like the coach of the Utah Jazz who did not want his team to be watching BBM, "that fag movie."
I think you are pointing to a liberal, enlightened world that only exists in pockets in parts of the world. I have the suspicion that the very reason there is an increase in homophobic outrages across the world is because of LGBT gains closer to home. Perhaps all that people in the more enlightened part of the world can do is to straighten up our own act. The new champions of LGBT rights demand nothing less than full equality. Stereotypical portrayals of LGBTs on screen do not help in that fight, and should be exposed whenever they appear, not celebrated as some new kind of progress in accepting all people "warts and all."
serious crayons:
--- Quote from: x-man on January 31, 2014, 09:40:15 am ---You ask if by using words like LGBT portrayals of "troubled, desperately unhappy freaks" I am pointing to an "outdated genre." Such portrayals in films like Tea and Sympathy, Compulsion, Boys in the Band, Cruising, and the like are, I agree, scarcer these days. But I would suggest that the genre of stereotypical portrayals of LGBT characters may now be more subtle, but definitely not gone. To many people, LGBT characters on Will and Grace, or, say, 1 Girl 5 Gays, might be "glib, funny, nonsense," but they aren't quite as funny to us. And for those just looking for ammunition to use for their homophobia, programs like that certainly do provide it.
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I disagree with this. I realize that the characters in "Will and Grace" -- which I only saw once or twice -- are problematic. (I'm not familiar at all with "1 Girl 5 Gays.") But I don't think it turned anyone's attitude toward gay people worse -- I think it either reinforced their existing attitudes or, at best, made people who were slightly homophobic (but not so much that they wouldn't watch the show) think of gay people as funny agreeable folks to invite into their living rooms once a week. It might have made gay men look silly, but it didn't make them look ominous or deviant or horrible.
Someone here once posted an old "educational" video that must have dated back to about the time when I was in grade school or maybe a few years earlier. It was intended to warn children about the dangers of "The Homosexual" who would lurk in his car outside the playground and then follow little Billy home and try to lure him into the car. Some of the people enjoying "Will and Grace" no doubt grew up with that sort of image.
--- Quote ---I can disagree with very little here, but at their heart, your remarks are the way things ought to be, not the way they indeed are.
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Agreed.
--- Quote --- I suggest that mainstream viewers indeed do NOT recognize that offensive portrayals of minority groups are "about one individual, not everyone in the entire group." The mainstream is not made up of the thoughtful, educated people you seem to have in mind.
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The mainstream is made up of people who live in the -- how many states is it now? -- legalizing same-sex marriage, a concept that would have been unthinkable in this country even a decade ago, let alone back in the days of the educational video I mentioned above.
--- Quote --- Few people read essays and books by writers addressing this issue, most are not thoughtful, not educated, and not likely to be given to changing their minds about how repellent and dangerous the LGBT community is to their world. I am not talking about people in our own social circles and neighbourhoods, but in the world as a whole. For LGBTs, news from that world is increasingly alarming. Do you think many in the mob surrounding the Law Courts in Sierra Leone demanding death to all gays, have watched BBM or read Edmund White? Do Putin, his cronies in the Russian Parliament, and, it seems, the bulk of the Russian public, bother with reasoned treatments of LGBT culture?
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No, I don't think the mob in Sierra Leone has read Edmund White. But I bet they aren't big followers of "Will and Grace," and for that matter I doubt they've seen "The Boys in the Band." Those attitudes aren't shaped by problematic portrayals out of Hollywood. They're shaped by conservative religions and ancient prejudices and ignorance, none of which stem from Western entertainment products.
--- Quote ---I suggest that while we in NA and Western Europe are comforted by the increasing acceptance of equal marriage and the increasing acceptance that implies,, the situation in the rest of the world is getting ominously worse.
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I'm not sure whether they're getting worse, or whether we're just more aware of and outraged by what's going on elsewhere because things are getting better here. I'll grant you that it's some cultures probably do become more vehemently conservative as a reaction against what they see as dangerous Western values -- in regard to women as well as gay people, BTW.
--- Quote --- The less optimistic side of me says that the mainstream is more like the coach of the Utah Jazz who did not want his team to be watching BBM, "that fag movie."
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The mainstream in the U.S. -- or 53% of it, anyway, at last count -- supports marriage equality. That's the only measure I can think of offhand, aside from the sort of media portrayals we've been talking about, which have gone from "The Homosexual" video to "Cruising" to "Will and Grace" to the new HBO series "Looking."
Is 53% great? No, it is not. But it's a hell of a lot better than whatever the polls would have showed 10 years ago.
As for the Utah Jazz coach, he would have said the exact same thing 20 years ago. The difference is you never would have heard about it then, because nobody would have thought it particularly odd or disturbing. Nowadays the "Duck Dynasty" guy gets fired from TV for saying ugly things about gay people.
--- Quote --- Stereotypical portrayals of LGBTs on screen do not help in that fight, and should be exposed whenever they appear, not celebrated as some new kind of progress in accepting all people "warts and all."
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Whoaaaa. When I said "warts and all" I wasn't talking about stereotypical portrayals. Warts and all means portraying people as they actually are -- individuals with a mixture of virtues and flaws, not cookie cutters standing in for prejudices.
I guess I have to go back to asking exactly what portrayals we're talking about here. The movies you listed above are all decades old. "Will and Grace" is off the air. We started out talking about DBC, but you have established that we no longer are. So just what are we talking about? Aside from "Will and Grace," what portrayals bother you, among those that have appeared onscreen in the past 10 years or so?
x-man:
Before I look at your points individually, I suggest that your argument in your last posting is something like this: If we aren't talking about DBC then what ARE we talking about? This is a sort of rhetorical question based on 4 points:
1) LGBT portrayals in the media have advanced. You give a timeline, a spectrum stretching from a vicious "education" film from your youth through to the very accepting 2013/4 TV series "Looking."
2) The negative movie examples I gave are hopelessly dated, and thus no longer relevant.
3) You turn to what the focus of my anger is--what the mainstream may think of these portrayals whether they are relevant or not.
4) And you conclude that it doesn't really matter because such portrayals do not make anyone more homophobic anyway, the worst it will do is just reinforce existing prejudices.
Is this a fair summary? If so, may I look at these questions more closely? Problems emerge.
Regarding the first 2 points I am ambivalent. I cannot deny that LGBT portrayals have become more realistic over the years, just as the portrayal of blacks has come a long way from Birth of a Nation, or of women from the ditzy dumb-blondes of 30's comedies. Nevertheless, and I emphasize this, with advances in media technology, old movies (and to a lesser extent old TV shows) are just as likely to show up on television--perhaps even more likely-- because they are cheaper to run, and I doubt that most viewers discriminate between what represents an outdated viewpoint, and one that is current. They are just "there" in a timeless television Now, and are as free to work their destructive magic on the viewers' minds as they were before.
I don't think it would be helpful to provide list of gay-theme movies I object to. We know they are there, and continue to see them on screen. And often it is just one character per movie acting out the stereotypical faggot or dyke in an otherwise straight story. These hurt too. (I can think of one counterexample to my point--Cher's lesbian character in Silkwood.) Besides the fact that supposedly outdated movies are still very much with us, notice too that TV series and movies showing LGBT life as something to be enjoyed, even celebrated, rather than endured or ridiculed, appear on specialty channels like HBO, Showtime, and OUTtv--safely away from the eyes of most who might risk changing their mind if they watched them.
It is difficult for me to point to specific examples of TV shows in the US that you have seen, because Canadian TV is perhaps behind US television in when we see a particular show, if at all. And we have our own shows that may not reach US audiences. I just don't know. The brother/uncle in Good Wife seems OK. I have no idea how LGBTs are treated in magazine shows like Rosie O'Donnell or Ellen DeGeneres. 1Girl 5 Gays is my pet hate up here--and Homorazzi. Now the Big Bang Theory: They never utter the word "gay," but that is the most disgusting parody of a gay man (well, of most of the male characters) I have seen. Geez, Mary, butch it up just a little!
I can't believe that one would suggest that the stereotypical LGBT portrayals are not there, even if they have changed from being psychopathic to slightly less dangerous figures. This brings me to the 3rd and 4th questions. Basically, what effect do these portrayals have, and whom do they have an effect on? I have to begin with something that I know will press your buttons, but I have to.
--- Quote from: serious crayons on January 31, 2014, 10:37:49 am ---... think of gay people as funny agreeable folks to invite into their living rooms once a week. It might have made gay men look silly, but it didn't make them look ominous or deviant or horrible.
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I know you don't mean it that way, but consider how these words sound to LGBTs. We don't want to be "funny agreeable silly folks to invite into ones living rooms once a week." These are just the kind of words I remember hearing from enlightened people in the 1950's about "Step-'n-Fetch-It/Amos and Andy blacks. As I remember blacks were not very amused by it at the time, then came to send it up with biting humour. This, in turn, reminds me of Queer as Folk. I am, it seems, the only fan of QAF in BetterMost, but I want to cite one example from it: Two of the main characters, gay, buy a house in the straight suburbs. They are immediately invited to meet the liberal neighbours at a cocktail party, and basically, to "entertain the white folks." The scene is a cleverly cruel parody, and terribly funny. I used to get very angry about this kind of thing, now I think humour is the best way of dealing with it.
[quote author=serious crayons link=topic=51966.msg654904#msg654904 date=13911790 Those attitudes aren't shaped by problematic portrayals out of Hollywood. They're shaped by conservative religions and ancient prejudices and ignorance, none of which stem from Western entertainment products[/quote]
I agree with you here that the roots of prejudice lie in conservative religious and ancient prejudices. They may not "stem from" Western entertainment, but they do, whether in NA or in the rest of the world, derive energy from those prejudices being played out on the screen. In Canada and Western Europe the battle has been largely won, and we must be grateful for that. In the US the battle is slower. (I suspect this may be due to your Constitution giving all "residual rights" not specifically given to the Federal Government to the States, so that human rights issues have to be fought out state by state. In Canada, residual rights revert to the Federal Government, so issues like equal marriage and other sexual freedoms are dealt with all at once by Ottawa.) It is slower in the US, but your main point--that it is indeed moving, and perhaps faster than anyone would have dreamed in spite of dubious media portrayals of LGBTs, I don't deny, although I am impatient for LGBT rights everywhere.
What I want to get across is that homophobic outrages do not necessarily begin with someone seeing a LGBT being depicted as dangerous, criminal, psychopathic perverts. All that is necessary is for us to be viewed as people not to be taken seriously, to be discounted, to be "light in the loafers" as the anti-gay saying goes. This is how it starts. This makes us "other." As we know from sociology, to be "other" leads to attempts to bring us into the fold, and when that doesn't work, it leads to isolation and exclusion. (Sound familiar?) Apply this paradigm to the LGBT situation worldwide, and it fits ominously well.
This brings me to the question of whom does stereotypical portrayals of LGBTs affect anyway? You will tell me that my paradigm does not fit America. I wonder if, in your posting, you were doing something you used to accuse me of doing--slipping in a change of point of view and then proceeding as if it had been there all along. Isn't that what you were doing when you suddenly switched from talking about the "mainstream" world to the US mainstream? There is a big difference between the situation in, say, Africa or Brazil, and the situation for LGBTs in America, I will in a moment suggest that homophobia in America is at least partially responsible for the horrors in Africa and Brazil (and other places). I would agree with you that the paradigm of discounting to otherness to isolation and then exclusion seems to be working in reverse in the US. Well, it is amongst certain parts of the population, not all, and that's the problem.
I suggest that in NA such things as the Matthew Shephard case and those like it, media depictions of LGBT people do play a part in feeding into the basic insecurity some people, especially some straight young men feel about their own sexuality, and give licence for them to torture, maim, and kill those who are, of course, just what they secretly fear in themselves. Thus I am not as willing as you are to let "harmless" examples of media homophobia go by. I know where it can and does lead. Tied into this is my final point ("At last," I hear you sigh.) that media-reinforced LGBT stereotyping in the US does affect the situations in Central Africa and Brazil. I am talking about the fact that the anti-gay frenzy in Africa and Brazil is being caused and promoted by evangelical missionaries from the US. The clergyman who was instrumental in getting Uganda to introduce life-imprisonment for being gay acknowledged his role proudly, but did say that a life sentence was perhaps a bit harsh. These religious crazies are for certain working out of "conservative religions and ancient prejudices," but they are the ones who saw the movies you suggest are "outdated" and saw them as "suspicions confirmed."
You will probably tell me to lighten up, to be glad my own country is as enlightened as it is, and that NA and my cultural world are making great advances in LGBT rights It's just that every night on the news I see increasing LGBT oppression and suffering around the world.
BTW:
Any of you who have seen my postings in the past may have noticed that I no longer use the word "gay" so universally, but have switched to LGBT. I have always been focused on and aware of the "G" but the rest of the alphabet never meant anything to me. Then a few months ago I began subscribing to OUTtv, Canada's only LGBT television channel. With the programs there, especially some excellent documentaries, I suddenly became aware of the LBT part. I learned that their problems and struggles were the same as mine,however different our lifestyles might be. So I throw in my lot with them, and from now on it is LGBT where appropriate. I am not suggesting this is more politically correct, or that anyone else should follow me--but it is right for me.
SC, the way you referenced "Looking" was cute. I wonder, in my "review" of it, who came off sounding more trashy--the show or me? I hope it was me.
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