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moremojo:
I thought it was bad enough to be compelled to act as pallbearer (I know that that's supposed to be an honor, but I've been asked to do it three times now, the first time for a great-aunt, next for for my paternal grandmother, and most recently for my aunt, and it's a burden, both physically and emotionally [sorry if that sounds unfeeling, but it's the truth]), but being asked to sing or recite a text at a loved one's funeral would be inestimably more difficult.
I intend to have a very simple funeral, having myself cremated and put into the ground with a minimum of ceremony, with formal dress and rites completely optional to those attending.
southendmd:
My family asked me to speak at my Dad's funeral. I'm not much of a public speaker, so I kept it brief. It was very difficult, but I'm glad I did it. I remember seeing my family in the first row rooting for me.
I think I would have regrets if I had chosen not to.
Shakesthecoffecan:
--- Quote from: moremojo on October 04, 2007, 11:16:01 am ---I intend to have a very simple funeral, having myself cremated and put into the ground with a minimum of ceremony, with formal dress and rites completely optional to those attending.
--- End quote ---
I want to be buried with no fanfare asap after I die, and later if folks want to have a memorial service they can do whatever they like.
Scott6373:
Not me...I want the whole damn rigmarole...professional mourners...waling and gnashing of teeth...good food and booze of course...and...I wanna be there lookin' good. New Wranglers, nice shirt, my black cowboy hat, eyes open, sitting up..making sure everyone is behaving... :laugh:
Shakesthecoffecan:
--- Quote from: Scott on October 04, 2007, 11:28:38 am ---eyes open,
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You had me until THAT part. :laugh:
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