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CellarDweller:
--- Quote from: Shakestheground on November 06, 2007, 09:03:47 am ---"You don't want to pospone crying too long.....Cry every week if you can....If you put it off too long, when the ters come, they will destroy you."
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absolutely true! People are afraid to cry, afraid to look weak. Crying heals.
notBastet:
--- Quote from: Shakestheground on November 06, 2007, 09:03:47 am ---Over the weekend i tried to listen more and talk less. Hoping to have some kind of enlightenment experence.
I over heard on conversation where I heard the phrases "Quietly Excited" and "Classically Overwelmed". I thought they were cool and wrote them down.
But the most profound statement I heard came from Garrison Keillor on Pararie Home Companion Saturday night. He was telling his story about a woman who buried many family members with out a tear, and lost it when her dog was accidentally killed. Then toward the end he lit into something that I started writing down but only got the highlights:
"You don't want to pospone crying too long.....Cry every week if you can....If you put it off too long, when the ters come, they will destroy you."
How true.
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course it's not really the tears, but everything inside that has resulted in the tears. Crying is definitely therapeutic, like venting. just another form of denial when you need to cry and you don't.
Artiste:
I have a hard time to cry.... indeed, and do so when needed absolutely like the death of my past lover.
Did Ennis and Jack cried in the BM film?
Hugs!
Shakesthecoffecan:
--- Quote from: Artiste on November 06, 2007, 01:23:43 pm ---I have a hard time to cry.... indeed, and do so when needed absolutely like the death of my past lover.
Did Ennis and Jack cried in the BM film?
Hugs!
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Yes, when trhey parted at the end of the summer, Ennis cried in the alley. When Jack took off for Mexico, he cried. When Ennis said "Jack, I swear", he was crying.
I find since BBM I can cry much easier. When I was a kid it seems like I remember crying all the time and forced myself not to, so now it is comming back to me, and that is a good thing most of the time.
Artiste:
Thanks Shakestheground!
You have good points about the BM movie, and you do not know that I will now re-see that film in order to cry more too, as you do.
Wonderful idea!
Hugs!!
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