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Bitch, Bitch, Bitch
delalluvia:
>:( >:( >:(
Here's where I can't fucking wait to move away from all these goddamn people I call family.
My mother asked me the other day, if she has to go to hospice/nursing home for her last days if I wanted to move into her house.
I agreed instantly, as I had already told my sister that when mom passed on, I would live in the house a couple of years and save for a down payment on my own home and then I'd move out and she could do the same.
Sounds reasonable, right? Considering my sister has already moved in and out of my mother's house twice, staying anywhere from a couple of years to 6 months, saving rent and money. AND my mother has already given her $10 grand in inheritance money.
I haven't moved home at all since I left, nor have I received any money from my mother.
I told my mother about my plans and what I had told my sister and she asked, "What did your sister say?"
I replied, now the some trepidation, "She didn't say anything."
Which I now know is my sister's code for "do not agree".
Sure enough, I told my mother to tell my sister this plan - since my mother is the one who asked me - and my sister pitched a fit. Got all pissed off, saying SHE needed to live in the house since her job was nearby. All the benefits she has already received from my mother and staying at the house don't count, you see.
I'M the one being selfish. >:( >:(
You understand why I'm reluctant to let my sister in the house before me? Possession is 9/10ths of the law. I don't think I could get her out once she gets in. Seriously. I have some benefits to moving in first, but then I have no guarantee my sister will help with taxes or insurance while I'm there.
I begged my mom to write this in her will, but she's cheap and just says "write it down on a piece of paper and I'll sign it' - as if that would mean anything in a court of law.
All I can do is push really hard to move in first - fucking break in if I have to - it would be a war of whose lease is up first when the time comes.
My sister is such a goddamn fucking selfish bitch if I get in the house and stay my two years, I'm out of here. Never fucking looking back, never claiming her as family. >:( >:( >:(
injest:
Jeez, Del, she can't wait til your mom passes before she wants to start fighting over the inheretance...I don't blame you a bit.
>:( >:(
delalluvia:
--- Quote from: injest on November 10, 2008, 10:31:25 pm ---Jeez, Del, she can't wait til your mom passes before she wants to start fighting over the inheretance...I don't blame you a bit.
>:( >:(
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Exactly what my mom said. She knows the jealousy and selfishness isn't coming from me. She said I'd better write down what I want from the house/her personal stuff, otherwise my sister will snatch it all up.
injest:
--- Quote from: delalluvia on November 10, 2008, 10:35:46 pm ---Exactly what my mom said. She knows the jealousy and selfishness isn't coming from me. She said I'd better write down what I want from the house/her personal stuff, otherwise my sister will snatch it all up.
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better yet why doesn't she start letting you HAVE some of the items that she won't miss that much.
delalluvia:
--- Quote from: injest on November 10, 2008, 10:38:44 pm ---better yet why doesn't she start letting you HAVE some of the items that she won't miss that much.
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She would if I asked and as a matter of fact, I'm going to ask for some things tomorrow, seeing as I can't trust my own sibling to be an honest and a standup person. >:(
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