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Brokeback Mountain: Our Community's Common Bond => Brokeback Mountain Open Forum => All Things Brokeback: Books, Interviews and More => Topic started by: Lynne on March 27, 2006, 01:23:52 pm
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It looks as if the professionals are recognizing what we've been struggling to express here with other kindred souls!
http://www.medialifemagazine.com/artman/publish/article_3691.asp
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Thanks for posting this one, Lynne. It certainly confirms what we've already discovered about BBM. I'm sending this one around to a few of my lukewarm friends. Iris
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Cool article, Lynne. I've been an avid believer in "movie therapy" for years. It works especially with the older youths (9th-12th) graders. They don't always like to express themselves but in some way or another usually relate to what is on the screen.
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Thank you Lynne
this is a great article...I shared it with some friends who are grappling with BBM issues too....some told quiet coldly to just snap out of it...
I know the movie has helped me in so many ways....each day I find something new to try out...it is excellent therapy.......together with that I keep a BBM journal where I put in thoughts and ideas that occur to me...collect things people say that I find insightful ...poems....song lyrics....anything...
On one of my last days teaching a few of my students ... ....gave me a journal....
I used to have this thing going with them where they would right stuff in their journals and pass it to me to read....their problems, anything.....boy or girl issues ...( a way for them to share problems...things on theior heart....hard at time for teen agers especially the boys )
..I used to read it then write repllies to them......this would go back and forth all year.....and beyond sometimes.....so when I left they gave me a jornal too....
after BBm when I was sorting things....I found the journal again with their dedication on the first page and tears came to my eyes.....on the cover of the journal .....a black and white image of a ........Rodeo Cowboy.....
this was way before anything BBM at all..( not even in the media) ....seems like it was meant to be...
this is now my BBM journal....very precious....
it inspires me and motivates me.....
thank you for listening..
hugs
Kea
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That's terrific, Kea,
I love the journal idea...I started one myself just a few days ago. Are you a teacher then? Tell me more about that if you can. I'm glad we found each other and this site...Philip set up a special place for the fan fiction..have you found it?
Let me know if I can help.
(Hugs) Lynne
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Hi Lynne
well I am a psychologist ...but also trained as an English teacher, teaching high school Literature.....I do counselling etc.....did my thesis in Sociology ....on death and dying......nothing too fantastic...really...
No I am not too good finding my way around yet....if its ok...do you want to put the fan fic in there for me? ...only if its ok.....you read it...so you know the content....I wish I could get you to read the rest now..then I could see what you think...lol...
hugs
Kea
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Hi there, Kea,
I sent you some mail too...Since the influx of the new peeps, it's becoming a challenge to keep up with all that's going on here...exciting, except for that need to do laundry, grocery shop, sweep & mop, bill paying...I thought I'd resumed my routine to some extent and then 'Whammo' the 'refugees' arrive...It's very cool! I frequently give up sleep without too many ill effects.
You sound like a very interesting person - psychology, counselling and literature...I'm really looking forward to getting to know you better. You already know I'm loving your writing.
My degree is in physics and I worked in engineering for 11+ years (lived in Boston - loved it - for 8 of those); now I'm doing software but i keep thinking about getting back into the pure sciences one day. My 'concentration' in school was English - Southern American literature. The main point was that I love reading and I needed electives that would get me out of the labs and give me time to do what I loved. Have you read much of that sort of thing - Flannery O'Conner? Walker Percy? I think I was predisposed to love Ennis and Jack and Annie's other stories because of this background...loving the tragic and the grotesque, you know?
I've done volunteer work for a United Way organization dedicated to suicide prevention - not real counselling, but sort of a peer counselling, active listening, befriending program.
Anyhow...again, I'm glad we met and that you had such a successful day!
Hugs back...
Lynne
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"In a culture that relentlessly promotes emotional excess and self-exposure, grief stands apart. It's the neglected stepchild of the emotions, the one we often bear alone, in silence. It's the feeling everyone experiences, and no one wants to talk about.
No one, perhaps, except artists. In the books we read, the movies we see, the music we listen to and the theater we attend, grief seems to be everywhere. It's the source, motivating force and ever-present theme of many of the world's great masterpieces. These days, you can hardly leave the house without encountering it."
Read the complete article at http://www.contracostatimes.com/mld/cctimes/14235033.htm
-Lynne