The Dallas dudes who inspired Willie Nelson’s salute to gay cowboys usher in star-studded Aetheria bash
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...Last year — during the “Brokeback Mountain” craze — a Dallas couple became the de facto gay cowboys of Valentine’s Day. On the morning of Feb. 14 2006, Howard Stern was the first to air Willie Nelson’s new single, “Cowboys Are Frequently, Secretly Fond of Each Other,” the first gay-themed mainstream country song by a major artist.
But the Valentine’s Day tie-in to Nelson’s single had a personal connection.
In 2004, Nelson’s tour manager David Anderson, who had previously been married for 15 years, came out to Nelson and his wife. A lifelong Dallasite, Anderson met Nelson in 1973, when Anderson was an 18-year-old go-getter who booked the country star for outdoor festivals held at a parking lot near Love Field. They’ve worked together for more than three decades.
By rolling the single out on Feb. 14, Anderson said Nelson wanted to avoid anti-gay country fans bashing the song simply because of the queer content.
And that’s why Anderson’s coming out to Nelson was highlighted with the single’s release: If Willie says gay folks are cool, maybe his listeners will think the same.
In 2005, through an on-line service, Anderson met Darrin Davis, a Utah native who moved to Dallas 13 years ago. With dancing in his blood, Davis found an outlet in clogging competitions. His heart, however, was thirsty for disco.
...[Davis'] background in clogging hasn’t gone to waste. Davis choreographed and directed the video for “Cowboys Are Frequently, Secretly.” After spending months working with more than 30 gay boot-scooters that he had scouted at The Round-Up Saloon, the video was finished. The video is set in a bar called “The Round-Up” and even features a Burt Reynolds cameo.
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In a recent interview, Davis explained that he and Anderson are no longer boyfriends but they’re still on good terms and are elated with Aetheria’s success.
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BROKEBACK CONNECTION
Willie Nelson already earned considerable gay cred. On the “Brokeback Mountain” soundtrack, he performed the mournful “He Was a Friend of Mine,” a Bob Dylan-penned tune. But that track was Nelson’s second offering. His first choice was “Cowboys Are Frequently, Secretly Fond of Each Other,” a humorous song that had been kicking around for about 20 years. The “Brokeback” producers didn’t think the song’s tone fit with the film. Still, Nelson thought the song should come out of the closet. And he was right. “Cowboys Are Frequently” was released as a digital download on iTunes, and the cut became the second-highest charting single of Nelson’s career.
Unfortunately, Davis says that Nelson will not be performing “Cowboys Are Frequently, Secretly” on Saturday. Nelson will be focusing on new material. And according to Davis, Nelson has never performed the gay cowpoke song in public.