I don't know Dottie. I'm not sure if these corporal punishments work or not. I don't think they really did me any good in the long run. But I sure do remember them! Sometimes I think parents hit and swat their children simply because it makes THEM (the parent) feel better. They are frustrated and hitting the source of the frustration feels good. I hate to think like this, but I have a feeling I'm probably correct.
Your quite right David. The thing is, most parents hit in anger as a last resort. The angrier they get, the harder they get. The more the child screams, the harder they hit them to shut them up, and so it goes on. I also think parents hitting their children makes them nothing more than a big bully. It just sends them a message that says: "I,m bigger than you and if you don,t do what I tell you, I,ll hit you and make you do it". I also honestly think that there are people in the world who only have children so they can have something to yell at. My neighbours are a prime example of this. They are always screaming at their children, and they have no qualms atall about regularly telling them both to fuck off. The kids are about 7 and 5. They also shut them in their rooms and leave them to scream. If they keep on too long, the mother, (for want of a better word) thunders up the stairs and smacks the pair of them hard.
I remember last year, in the summer. The little girl was at school and the little boy, who was at the time too young for school was playing out in the garden by himself. I have no idea what he did, but all of a sudden, his dad decided he had dome something wrong. He went flying outside, dragged him upstairs and smacked him. Now he must have hit him really hard because that child screamed and screamed and screamed. It made my blood run cold. I don,t have to hit my children to discipline them. They know by the tone of my voice to do as they are told. I simply take away a treat etc if they misbehave. There is nothing worse than being out somewhere and seeing some parent smack their child and watch the poor little mite screaming, with tears running down it,s face and seeing a big hand print on the backs of it,s legs. I think it,s cruel and should be against the law, punishable by prison and a heafty fine, and possibly having the children taken away from you.