This is probably only marginally relevant, but I don't feel single anymore. After about fifteen years of casual dating and not even looking for a real partner, the mindset was that I found love once - so what were the chances? Besides, I work very well on my own. Now that has changed. I love my ex-husband dearly, but I never knew things could be as good as they are now. Frankly, I'm scared spitless that I will mess this up. I find I'm consulting him before Brokie trips - not for permission, but just because I want him with me if possible.This is the first time ever I can envision growing old with someone. Not anytime soon of course. I don't know what my point is, except that everything has changed and I am thrown by it. I'm not sure I know how to be part of a couple anymore logistically, except of course the basics - mutual respect and love and consideration.
Im doing a happy dance for you Lynne!!!!!