Cellar Scribblings

[CellarDweller]

Well I just got back from an NYC Brokie gathering, and I'm feeling so happy.

Great times with great people, and it hit me that it was at this time (or about, actually, closer to October) in 2005 that I first saw the trailer for Brokeback Mountain, and was blown away, and had made up my mind to see this movie, 2 months before it hit the theaters.

I had NO IDEA how it would hit me, or the traveling I would do because of it.

I've met sooooo many wonderful people from all over the world because of Brokeback, and I've come home from each gathering (and it didn't matter if it was 5 or 105 attendees) feeling happy, and a better person.

I was so blessed to see this movie, and to find the Dave Cullen Forum, and the BetterMost forum, and to meet all the great people here.

You all have laughed with me, cried with me, given me your ears, your shoulders, and space in your hearts.  I got a new Auntie (KillersMom) and 3 Big Brothers  (Rob_in_Puyallup, ShakesTheGround, LoneLeeB3), become a harem member (PaintedShoes ) and a Puto (McNell1120) and have a huge group of friends who are great people!

Love to you all!


Looking forward to meeting more of you over the next months, and into the new year!

[CellarDweller]

Good morning, BetterMost!




I hope that everyone had a great weekend, and is ready (uggh) for Monday morning!



Big hugs to you all today!






Today's poem was written about 3 years ago, when I first put up a personal ad online.  lmao  It was an experience.









Size?


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So I sign onto the 'net, for something to do
I log into a chat, to see who is who
I create a profile, I put up my pic
I started to chat, I met people, really quick
In under 5 minutes,  was messaged by 3 guys
and the first question they asked was, "what is your size?"
That was their first question, right after the "hi"
wanting to know what was, between the thighs
No "what's your name", or "how are you",  nothing else to say
Just wanted to know,  if I was up for a quick lay
I wanted to say,  "can't you show some class?
do you know that,  you made yourself look like an ass?"
Did you look at my pic,  and think you'd push your luck
he looks like a guy,  who'd give me a quick fuck
I really do hope,  I don't come off like a prude
but I just have to say,  I find your approach rude
"Hey, how's it goin'?,   My name is Nick,
if you've got some spare time,  would you suck my dick?"
No "do you want to meet?",   "Do you like to dance?"
your only thought was,  to get into my pants
well here's a news flash,  I don't do casual sex
if you're looking for that,  go call on an ex
If you want it go get it,  go for yours boy
I hope you find someone,  who will let themselves be your toy
I've got no problem with you,  go do what you can
but I have higher standards,  because I am a man.

[Brokeback_Dev]

Good morning Cellar Dweller. 

[Shakesthecoffecan]

  I don't do casual sex
if you're looking for that,  go call on an ex
If you want it go get it,  go for yours boy
I hope you find someone,  who will let themselves be your toy
I've got no problem with you,  go do what you can
but I have higher standards,  because I am a man.

I am clapping my hands in enthusiastic acknowledgement. And since I am you big brother I will tell you those jeans look good on you. 

[CellarDweller]

I am clapping my hands in enthusiastic acknowledgement. And since I am you big brother I will tell you those jeans look good on you. 

Thank you, big bro!  I feel very "out of date" a lot of the times.

I have lunch with 3 to 5 straight women every day, and the topic of sex comes up often (shocker ) and they often tell me that I'm never going to meet anyone because of my views on sex.

I get told that my views are "old fashioned" and that men my age don't want to get into hand holding and kissing and cuddling, that's high school stuff.  If I'm not willing to give out sex as soon as possible, that I will get left behind.


an thanks for the compliment on my jeans. 

[CellarDweller]

Good morning Cellar Dweller. 

*waves to dev*

Good morning!  How are you today?   Off to read your blog now!

[Shakesthecoffecan]

Puto

I always thought that was something you tried not to say around Spanish speakers.

[Scott6373]

I have lunch with 3 to 5 straight women every day, and the topic of sex comes up often (shocker ) and they often tell me that I'm never going to meet anyone because of my views on sex.

Babe, in this case, judge their words by their choices.  Take a good look at their husbands/significant others, and then re-think their words.

I get told that my views are "old fashioned" and that men my age don't want to get into hand holding and kissing and cuddling, that's high school stuff.  If I'm not willing to give out sex as soon as possible, that I will get left behind.

They are old fashioned...and that's definately a good thing...casual means disposable, and lovemaking should never be that.

[CellarDweller]

Puto

I always thought that was something you tried not to say around Spanish speakers.

Oh yes......puto (o in my case, to be masculine) means, "whore".

When Nellie comes onto the forum, we swear at each other in spanish, to be funny.  Everyone knows we're not serious about it.

She'll call me "Puto pendejo"  (whore assh*le) and I'll reply with, "oh, whatever, chingada hembra".  (f**k you, bitch).

we're a real loving bunch!   

[CellarDweller]

They are old fashioned...and that's definately a good thing...casual means disposable, and lovemaking should never be that.

Thanks, Scott!


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