I fell in love first with them in the s.s, then all over again in the film.Both hit me very hard.In the ss i fell for Ennis in the prologue, and for Jack at the motel reunion.I was beyond all hope by the end of the reunion scene.
I avoided the film for a time as I had such a firm picture of Jack and Ennis in my head from the story.My husband noticing my rather obvious obsession,bought me the dvd.
Again I avoided it,The picture on the front of Jake and Heath was not as I had imagined ,Ennis and Jack.
One day literally having nothing much to do I finally sat down to watch the film.I fell in love with Jack as he was watching Ennis.in the truck wing mirror.I fell for Heath when he was in the office,and shyly glances at Jack.
The film was so powerful it completely eradicated the images I had of the 2 of them from reading the story.Which is unusual for me.Normally if I read abook first,then see the film I end up disappointed.Not in the case of BBM.I was completely hooked.
Having bored everyone to death about the book,I then proceeded to bore them all over again about the film.
I had just about stopped crying over the s.s when I started all over again over the film.
I lurked on several sites for ages,almost like feeding an addiction.Devouring every word written on both the film,actors,ss the whole lot.
I finally plucked up courage to post here,following Heath's (can't say it) Which of course started me sobbing all over again.
Have never looked back since.
To those who ridicule,I always ask them what difference there is,between discussing and writing about BBM and doing the same about some dire novel,you possibly do not even like,but are forced to examine for 2 years down to the minutiae for A level English.
Personally I would rather discuss something which I not only loved,but which quite literally changed my life and had such a deeply profound effect on me.