Author Topic: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th  (Read 7473 times)

Offline Ellemeno

  • Moderator
  • The BetterMost 10,000 Post Club
  • *****
  • Posts: 15,367
RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« on: May 14, 2008, 05:43:24 am »
(This post is also in the Heath Heath Heath thread in Chez Tremblay.)

Hi everyone,

On Heath's birthday this year, the wonderful and lovely RouxB and I went to the beach together in Santa Barbara, California, to express our love for Heath.  Here are some photos of our project.  We tried to remember the names of as many of the Heath Heath Heath thread Heathens as we could.  Any not included was completely due to forgetfulness at the time.  We considered ourselves there for everyone. 

:-*












Offline mouk

  • Brokeback Mountain Resident
  • ****
  • Posts: 241
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #1 on: May 14, 2008, 05:49:00 am »
OMG ((((Elle and RouxB)))) what a lovely way to celebrate his birthday. He loved the sea (still can't get used to spek of him in the past tense  :'()

Very moving  :-*

Offline belbbmfan

  • BetterMost Supporter!
  • BetterMost 1000+ Posts Club
  • *****
  • Posts: 3,354
  • A love that will never grow old
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #2 on: May 14, 2008, 06:30:52 am »
You know, the image of his friends celebrating his life on the beach in Australia is one I will never forget. And you made sure we were all included in your very own, personal and moving beach tribute to Heath. Thank you so much for writing my name on that card. It really means a lot.  :-* to Elle and Rouxb.
'We're supposed to guard the sheep, not eat 'em'

Offline MaineWriter

  • Bettermost Supporter!
  • BetterMost Moderator
  • The BetterMost 10,000 Post Club
  • *****
  • Posts: 14,042
  • Stay the course...
    • Bristlecone Pine Press
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #3 on: May 14, 2008, 06:37:57 am »
Thanks again for doing that, and for including me in the tribute.
Taming Groomzilla<-- support equality for same-sex marriage in Maine by clicking this link!

Offline serious crayons

  • BetterMost Moderator
  • The BetterMost 10,000 Post Club
  • *****
  • Posts: 22,761
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #4 on: May 14, 2008, 07:49:43 am »
I am honored to be listed, too. Thank you, you two!

 :D   :-*



Offline j.U.d.E.

  • BetterMost 1000+ Posts Club
  • ******
  • Posts: 1,747
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #5 on: May 14, 2008, 09:09:34 am »
Thank you so much both of you!!! 

:-* :-* :-*

So sweet!

I was looking for the thread a while ago and could not find it! I wanted to say thank you too, for being listed!


j. U. d. E.
MLK - - - - - - - - - - - - HAL - - - - - - - - - - - - BHO
*15 jan 1929 - †04 apr 1968 | *04 apr 1979 - † 22 jan 2008 | *04 aug 1961 -

Offline Meryl

  • BetterMost Supporter
  • BetterMost Moderator
  • The BetterMost 10,000 Post Club
  • *****
  • Posts: 12,205
  • There's no reins on this one....
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #6 on: May 14, 2008, 10:51:56 am »


Elle and Roux and Heath
Ich bin ein Brokie...

Offline RouxB

  • BetterMost Welcome Wagon & Contributor
  • Moderator
  • BetterMost 1000+ Posts Club
  • *****
  • Posts: 2,471
  • ...a love that will never grow old
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #7 on: May 14, 2008, 11:04:37 pm »
What a day that was...

Thanks Heathens for keeping company and reassuring me that I am not alone in this.

 O0

Heathen

Offline Brown Eyes

  • BetterMost Supporter!
  • BetterMost Moderator
  • The BetterMost 10,000 Post Club
  • *****
  • Posts: 10,377
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #8 on: May 14, 2008, 11:15:08 pm »


What a lovely, lovely gesture Elle and Roux!!
Thank you for listing my name on the card and thank you for sharing these wonderful photos.



 :-* :-* :-*

the world was asleep to our latent fuss - bowie

Offline SFEnnisSF

  • BBM Radio Program Director
  • BetterMost Moderator
  • BetterMost 1000+ Posts Club
  • *****
  • Posts: 3,548
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #9 on: May 15, 2008, 12:06:37 am »
Wow.   :o


(( Elle & RouxB ))  :)

Offline Lynne

  • BetterMost Supporter
  • BetterMost Moderator
  • BetterMost 5000+ Posts Club
  • *****
  • Posts: 9,291
  • "The world's always ending." --Ianto Jones
    • Elizabeth Warren for Massachusetts
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #10 on: May 15, 2008, 12:57:24 am »
I think this is wonderful.  I am so happy you two were able to spend time together mourning Heath.  Well done, Friends.
"Laß sein. Laß sein."

Offline Penthesilea

  • Town Administration
  • The BetterMost 10,000 Post Club
  • *****
  • Posts: 14,745
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #11 on: May 15, 2008, 02:23:17 am »
Thank you again RouX and Elle :-*

On one side, the last pic is sad with the writing vanishing and being washed away by the dark waters. Feels somehow symbolic.
On the other side: message delivered! And that's a good thing.


Offline Ellemeno

  • Moderator
  • The BetterMost 10,000 Post Club
  • *****
  • Posts: 15,367
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #12 on: May 15, 2008, 04:17:38 am »
What a day that was...

Thanks Heathens for keeping company and reassuring me that I am not alone in this.

 O0

Day you got your tattoo.  :-*







Offline sel

  • Brokeback Got Me Good
  • *****
  • Posts: 365
  • Love is a force of nature
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #13 on: May 15, 2008, 06:29:44 pm »
Thank you again Elle and RouxB for reporting back about your Heathen trip to the Ocean and for including my name.
BbM, I swear

Offline Aloysius J. Gleek

  • BetterMost Supporter!
  • The BetterMost 10,000 Post Club
  • *****
  • Posts: 10,011
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #14 on: May 15, 2008, 08:45:38 pm »
Lovely!

Elle and Roux--

An "Ebb Tide" Rose for you both, in honor of Heath:


"Ebb Tide," a Floribunda. It has a strong clove fragrance, an old fashioned form, a very beautiful mauve and mauve blend blossom color.
"Tu doives entendre je t'aime."
(and you know who I am...)


Cowboy Curtis (Laurence Fishburne)
and Pee-wee in the 1990 episode
"Camping Out"

Offline RouxB

  • BetterMost Welcome Wagon & Contributor
  • Moderator
  • BetterMost 1000+ Posts Club
  • *****
  • Posts: 2,471
  • ...a love that will never grow old
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #15 on: May 15, 2008, 11:33:24 pm »
Beautiful, John
beautiful John
see you soon!

Heathen

Offline Ellemeno

  • Moderator
  • The BetterMost 10,000 Post Club
  • *****
  • Posts: 15,367
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #16 on: May 16, 2008, 02:01:02 am »
"Ebb Tide," a Floribunda. It has a strong clove fragrance, an old fashioned form, a very beautiful mauve and mauve blend blossom color.




John,
I love mauve
and I love clove
into Brokeback I deeply dove
I love em all but not Karl Rove


:-*

I made it my new avatar, I hope that's okay.



« Last Edit: May 16, 2008, 11:54:01 am by Elle »

Offline Penthesilea

  • Town Administration
  • The BetterMost 10,000 Post Club
  • *****
  • Posts: 14,745
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #17 on: May 16, 2008, 02:07:24 am »


I think this is the most beautiful rose I've seen in my life. Thanks for posting this photo. I saved it.

Offline Brown Eyes

  • BetterMost Supporter!
  • BetterMost Moderator
  • The BetterMost 10,000 Post Club
  • *****
  • Posts: 10,377
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #18 on: May 16, 2008, 09:26:08 am »


That is a beautiful rose!

And, Elle, I love your new avatar. :)


the world was asleep to our latent fuss - bowie

Offline optom3

  • BetterMost 1000+ Posts Club
  • ******
  • Posts: 4,638
Re: RouxB and Elle go to the beach on April 4th
« Reply #19 on: May 17, 2008, 11:35:35 am »
I think this is the most beautiful rose I've seen in my life. Thanks for posting this photo. I saved it.

Absoloutely stunning.perfect in every way, from each petal to the colour.Was purple/mauve once the colour of mourning for royalty,or am I mis remembering,no matter.

Anyway,I have waited a while before posting on this section.It just seems so final and that is something I have not been able to get my head round.
However a couple of things happened to prompt this.

I went down to the beach here not one of the main ones,but a smaller one called turtle rock, named because the turtles come up there to nest.It was deserted apart from the odd jogger.
As I paddled at the edge in the morning sun I thought how peaceful it was.Last night I watched a beautiful tribute on you tube to Heath and Matilda set to the song happy ever after in your arms,which Heath had commissioned for his daughter as a lullaby.I sobbed and sobbed.He loved her so very much.

This morning with tears in my eyes,I came here and looked at the pictures of the card lapping at the edge of the waves,the stunning rose,thought of how peaceful I felt yesterday at the waters edge,and just hope that is what Heath has found.

It was a simple and beautiful tribute,you all made to him.He loved the water and it suddenly stuck me how apt it all was,even the run into the water by the mourners,after his,can't say the word.

Thankyou so much for doing that. I have never before found myself hoping so badly that there really is life after death.I used to be such a cynic.Now I hope with every cell in my body that there is and that He is happy ever after and at peace.
That is all we can ever hope, for the ones we love.And no matter  that we did not know him personally,we all loved him on some level,because of his ability to touch our souls.

I am still deeply saddened by it all,but my grasp of what a fitting and simple tribute you did for him,meant I could no longer wait to thankyou,even if I am sitting here with tears streaming unabated down my face.

THANKYOU.