Thanks brokebackjack!
What a surprise you present and was presented with, you got a double surprise?? !!
You say this:
It's strange, I've been to parties which were filled with all these macho detectives and when i hugged my brother they all smiled. The ones who felt embaressed when I'd hug my brother goodbye were the GAY policemen!
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May I ask that when they all smiled when you hugged your brother, did they also hug your brother??
Maybe they wanted to do so, or some did want that too??
As far as the gay policemen were embaressed when you hugged your brother good-bye, I am surprised also!!
Maybe, they were surprised too?? I am guessing that not many gay men hug in public, being afraid of that and since we gay men know that not much hugging in public nor at home is done!! ??
Great it is that you hug your brother!! I admire you for that! Wish I could hug my gay brother!!
Hugs!